fieldmouse

Well I am confused when people will say I am intelligent, because I am not clever... I get to thinking that they are two different things.

Ok.

I think so because my behavior can scare people. i can even scare myself sometimes.

No it is fine. I can see you did the right thing, it is your job as well. It is not the first or last time I would have to apologise, things got a bit mixed up, the thing is I feel that I want to say sorry and that is a good feeling to have, it means I have to look at what I did wrong.

What I do is because my life is all about timelines, if people call at an unarranged time, don't expect me to answer! Make an appointment the same as everyone else. Same with telephones, would you answer a number that was with-held? If someone can't say who they are then probably they are not worth talking to anyway.

Probably. Some lady she got the sack after 13 years service just cos she was seen to eat part of a nut that went into a cake or something. On hygienic grounds they sad. Pathetic.

My social worker said she sees other autistic adults but there is nothing in the Bournemouth are like groups/day centers that could help me in the daytime with some things to do. She said I should try starting up a group which could grow into something [everything has to start somewhere]. I wanted to ask other members [as they are in lots of different areas] if the resources are bad where you live?

It's to apologise of being rude to Mumble and some other people. I know that I am direct, it always gets me in trouble. A lot of people I have heard say that the best people to know about AS are those who have it. So I know that I am lucky in having HFA I can learn things like from mistakes and I can communicate though not very well with people IRL. I thought to make an apology because I was telled off in a PM for making bad comments. Like nobody saw them probably but it does not make it right that I said them. So I would like to say sorry even though I don't think it will be accepted because when you have a bad name, mud seems to stick to you.

What's this? So are you laughing now if an adult has to wear nappies. I was born incontinent and so I have to. Another reason why going out public places is hard, getting changed at the pool or at the beach [where I love to go but always find a place to be on my own]. I can't help that, but I manage my condition quite well. If I read your meaning wrong I can say sorry, but it sounded like a poor analogy.

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I did a bad thing lately. I have seem to upset some people by it. I am sorry afterwards but always when things happen it is too late. The post about it is called "So" and is under "general discussion". I have problems a lot in understanding other people's intentions. That is all it was really. The man could have said "Please could you move your bike" in a nice way. He was nasty actually. I know now I did wrong and I feel sorry.

Hello and welcome pinkpig... maybe your name is Peppa!

yes brilliant - at last somebody who understands Asperger's!

You sound very ignorant. You do not understand autism at all. Actually I thought this place would be somewhere to get help and support and advice. I am honest in the things I say. I know I do bad things. There are things that I can not control. I do not like this board so far. It is full of people who are not autistic but probably just join to make fun of those that have problems. I would like to design my own website much better than this as a resource where people would be helpful.