sizzler

Thank you for replying. I think you put it so well in your last paragraph. I am being emotional at times and forgetting that his thought processes are different to mine. This leads to him being frustrated that I don't see things logically at times. We have talked about having a time-out from each other if we can't resolve an issue there and then. He seemed to like that idea. He told me he'd like me to explain my emotions and why I feel the way I do, which I also think will help. He is so amazing to be with, but also confusing at tines. I guess we all are though. Thanks again.

Hello there, I'm new to this site. I have joined to understand Aspergers a bit more. My boyfriend has it and I am finding it hard to get my head around. My boyfriend is so amazing. He's kind, intelligent and loves me very much. However, we keep getting into conflicts, especially about the way we parent my two children. I want us to be able to discuss things without it erupting into anger or isolation. I find myself getting hurt, and him getting frustrated. I'm trying to think of ways that will make communication better. I know it's early days, but I really believe he is "the one". Any advice about communication, emotions and conflict would be much appreciated.