Hello all. I am hoping you can give me some advice. For the last 6 months I have been spending my free time online with a lovely lady who happens to have aspergers. We both share a deep love for complicated video games and seem to get along quite well talking about anything and everything (via voice chat) that comes to mind as we play. We have spoken about our lives, our thoughts on the world and even our deepest secrets. After realising I have fallen for her I have begun to struggle to find out if she feels the same way but of course she avoids answering me by changing the subject. When I told her about how I feel about her she answered with thanks and a few smilies and then the conversation swerved in a different direction. After that I decided to look deeper into Aspergers and realised how much emotion to her is expressed so differently to me. She lives quite close but in a different country to me. This summer she is planning to visit my countrys capital city with her mother for a minibreak and I asked her if we could meet up. She has agreed and will tell me when the dates are set. I am still not sure how she feels about me. Will I find out when she is ready? Should I already know how she feels? How should I proceed? Thank you to anyone spends the time to reply.
PS We are in our 20s.
