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Transfer to secondary school - few worries

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I have a few worries about the transfer of our boy to secondary school. The new school have been helpful so far and he has had a few visits with lots more to come.

 

I am posting here as one of you might have come across a couple of our problems and found a way round them.

 

Sorry this first one is embarrassing :o

 

I have worries about public toilets. It has become apparent to me recently that our boy age 11 routinely drops his trousers in a public toilet even when he goes for a wee. I have told him to always use a cubicle (hope he does). He can't seem to get the idea of getting his "equipment" out and when I try and discuss it I get the angry "STOP TELLING ME WHAT TO DO". I asked DH for a man to man approach, he isnt capable of this apparently. The way I found out was his trousers appeared wet sometimes after using a public toilet. He unfastens them and lets them drop. I am working on him to keep a hold of them, but having undone the trousers he still pulls his pants down. He prefers elasticated waist trousers and shorts, but for school will wear the zip ones if they have a hook and bar which he has now mastered. My worry is that at secondary school one of the big kids will see him with his bum uncovered and make fun of him. I really hope I am not the only one with his problem, as it would be laughable if I was on the outside looking in.

 

The other problems are less difficult to solve. Showers after PE - wont shower. Tight collars and tie and 2 layers under blazer, doesnt like this confined feeling.

 

 

 

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Hi peaches

 

Neither of my son's liked going to the toilet at school, you might find your son won't either! Does he wear pants or boxers?

 

PE - nightmare for both boys, don't think either EVER showered. Teachers don't even go in the changing rooms these days, so they don't know if anyone is showering or not (or spraying deodorant all over a child).

 

Shirts - I used to wash and tumble dry new shirts many times before they wore them, to soften the stiff collars. My boys used to go only in their shirts and hated even putting sweatshirts on top, they only wore their sweatshirts when they absolutely HAD to and only after getting in trouble for not wearing them.

 

Good luck.

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