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trekster

The use of swearing and adult content on the site

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Hello all

 

Do we have any rules against swearing and mentioning adult content on this site?

 

I've just had to remove a post about someone posting adult content because i was concerned it might upset others.

 

Is there a link to the forum rules or guidelines i could view,

 

thanks

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I don't think there are any particular rules on adult content, but it may be best to see if the community is actually offended by such material, content or speech before making this assumption. I don't personally get offended by any bad language but I can't speak for anybody else on here.

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It was to do with the member who keeps talking about Luke. He mentioned how the guy "didnt masturbate properly and had to watch others in order to learn how to masturbate properly". i can see the logic to Lukes behaviour but i dont see why it should be on the forum. i felt it was tmi and sounded like a description of a porn video.

 

Swearing is automatically stared out.

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Oh, I see. In that case, it may be a good idea to add a specific thread to allow people to speak about certain matters that some may consider inappropriate or offensive in some ways.

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Thats a good idea, we could have a 'gender identity discussion' thread and a 'sexuality discussion' thread?

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Yes, something along those lines. I think it's important that people are able to discuss subjects which are both significant yet potentially unsuitable. I suppose creating something like that is a start. Perhaps a branch from those subjects if topics begin to fall into more specific categories.

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As someone who is both trans and bisexual I feel able to moderate this part of the forum if necessary. I am not 'out' though and am unlikely to do so on here.

How's this sound?

 

(also put an adult content thread tag on there).

 

"the sexuality discussion thread"

 

This topic has been created for people to openly discuss sexuality matters. All types of sexuality will be respected whether gay, straight, bi or asexual. Please respect peoples right to privacy regarding their sexuality.

 

"the gender identity trans thread"

 

This topic has been created for people to openly discuss their gender. Whether questioning your gender, supporting another person questioning their gender or consider yourself on the trans* spectrum all are welcome. All gender identities will be respected whether genderqueer, non-binary, male to female, female to male or a mixture of different genders. Please respect peoples right to privacy regarding their gender.

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That all sounds good to me.

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