Malika

Lucas you say: I have some questions can your Mum trust you respective to your irrational impulses?, if your were to hurt your mother badly would you plead guilty with diminish responsability? beside all this beleive me when somebody wants to kill, wether the prospect victime is stronger or not there are plenty ways this can be done the main deterrent is a morale one or being afraid of the consequences, but really parents who can no longer cope and are mentally sane and able to make a decision can leave the child to social services for fostering or adoption. My point on this which may be difficult to understand for you is that the care from your parents whatever imperfect, is a blessing or may be in your case as it seems that it is not you should request your mother not to care for you anymore.You can't have it both way if you need the care you should give some credit to the carer if the carer is somehow abusing you you then (if your mental state is sound and I beleive it is) request a legal action to change carer or to become fully independant. The other point is that my heart goes to little Ryan who did not have the choice in the matter, but the point is that his mother had lost her sanity and felt that murder and suicide was the only way for her. I know for myself that if i was not able to cope anymore and able to make a sane decision i would request the SS to foster my son as cruel as it seems it is better than making his life a misery or taking his life away. But really in the heart of a mother (and of fathers sometimes) the love for our own children do allow us to cope with most of the difficulties and the love of our children for us allow them to cope with our short coming. Another question Luccas very personal one do you think your mother loves you.? and yourself do you love your mother? Take care. <'> <'> <'> Malika.

Hi to all, <'> Kathryn I agree with you Just posted a comment I couldn't do it yesterday as I felt so sad ... Autism or not I love my son to bit and the only thing I wish is for him to feel happy and able to cope for this some understanding from the big wild world is needed. Take care all. Malika.

HectorsHouse..... <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> For what I have experienced is that there are far too many professionals out there who seem to think that we are tricking them in order to get some help. There is a culture of disbeleive and it is only when people are breaking up that something is done but sometimes it is just too late. To all. <'> <'> <'> Malika.

What a nice article thanks Zeman!!!! This however was not a surprised I have read a lot about autism on French websites and what is coming out is that most of children with autism do not go to school at all.... and their parents educate them at home the best they can. Malika.

<'> <'> <'> To all. This is such a tragedy and i think we can all understand how this poor mother felt. all my heart goes to her and the little boy his big smile is just like my son big smile, I have bought the Dailymail today (first time in my life) as they had made the head line with his picture. While in their newspaper they explain that Ryan suffered from fragile X and autism on their internet link they do mention only fragile X ...but if anybody wishes to do so there is the possibility to make a comment at the end... This is the link: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/arti...in_page_id=1770 I have put two links as well from the independant one about Ryan and his mother the other is a research which link stress with depression.... why is it that I am not surprised???? http://news.independent.co.uk/uk/this_brit...ticle358350.ece http://news.independent.co.uk/uk/health_me...ticle358354.ece I hope that all from this group are well and safe. <'> How many more tragedy before getting some form of credibility???. Malika.

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Hi Phas, not too sure if this could be helpful as thyere were not realy any chance to develope some form of partnership with PP. My experience of PP is the following last year after puting pressure on the school to get more support for my son without much result I had been advice to ring the PP which I did a young lady ask me quite few details on the phone my son name, my address, his school, his age and if I had a DX and from who, she then told me that she was just taking details and they would call back to give me an appointment. I was call back the day after and the persone at the phone gave her name ask me briefly why I had been calling them, then told me that my son according to the school was coping well and I should accept and follow what ever the school had decided to do for him. I was not given any opportunity to meet anybody or to show the report from the medical team and it was obvious that they had contacted the school (behind my back) and given credit to their side of the story without even bothering to meet me. That was the end of it. I never contacted them again instead i contacted the IPSEA. Good luck Malika.

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Hi Darky <'> I would say if you have tried just about everything else then may be Prozac will be the help your daughter needs you are obviously well aware so you can spot negative signals and get in touch with the consultant. There are positive article about Prozac and negative one but at the end every circumstances are unique the main thing is to be aware and keep an eye on her I hope the treatment will work with her and this will give you and her a better quality life. Take care. Malika.

Sorry too tired forgot this one http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/A930151

Hi darky, just did a quick search and found various links of interest it seems that prozac is one of the best choice for children with panic attack or phobias however there seem to be other alternative and prozac now is raisng concern have a look at the last link as well there is an helpline.... http://www.herts.ac.uk/services/counsellin...ing_Phobias.pdf http://www.nomorepanic.co.uk/default.asp?t=cms&c=medication http://www.bbc.co.uk/dna/h2g2/A3187244 http://www.biopsychiatry.com/antidepressan...idepressant.htm http://adhd-report.com/biopsychiatry/bio_21.html http://www.first-steps.org/downloads/Info_pack.doc Malika.

Hi <'> Well it seems to be fairly typical as well because most groups are run by volonters and they do not have somebody to back them up. In mime the last one was that I received the letter telling me all about what had happened at the groupe while I never got the letter informing me of the time and date in the first place. Patience it is quite frustrating. Hope you did enjoye your time off in town... Malika.

Hi Darky, <'> <'> I feel shock reading your post as for what I know Prozac is prescribe for depression and for example people who have depression because of personality disorder like my ex have adverse reaction to it and it makes them more violent I observed that with my ex who had narssissic personality disorder and was put on Prozac however finding confirming this have come through sometimes after this. I have the feeling that phobias can be dealt with in a different manner but I may be wr now have you started the treatment yet with her and do you find it is working ? Wonder if some form of "slow and calculated" confrontation with what frightens her would not be a better solution even if it takes months to improve of course in the mean time some medication could be use to help but Prozac... may be somebody in here will know better. Take care. <'> Malika.

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Hi SkyBlue, My son was DX with ASD (final report) in october 2004 if it is OK send me a PM with you questionnaire I will send the answer to you. i did not receive any help and it is a fight for everything i get for him. Malika.

Luccas this is so true really brilliant thanks!!!

Hi and congratulation what a lovely news very encouraging for my son future too...... ..... as he always say he will never get a wife as he does not know how but never mind he says as if I am not around anymore he will order pizzas. Then he mumble "I like pizzas anyway" but I would not be so surprise as many girls keep embarassing him telling him that he is very cute....and he is only 8 years old. Thanks for sharing. <'> Malika.

Elaine <'> <'> <'> my thoughts are with you in this difficult time. <'> <'> Malika.

Hi Mel <'> <'> <'> I had those low feelings for nearly 2 years now and no matter how much more knowledge I got about the condition I feel the same I suppose the only thing which could help, would be to be reassure about H future seeing him stressed and upset becouse of his own misunderstanding (coz his condition) or because he feels lonely at school really triger my emotions, but the future is my worry as I am going to be 50 soon and my health is not very good H sister has difficulties on her own and cannot deal with H very well H has no contact with his father or any member of that side of the family the only blood relative who cares is my mum who is nearly 84, my partner is having now a very good relation with H but what would happen if I was no lomger here .... When H is coping better I feel hopeful but then a bad time coming over bring back the anxiety. Take care. <'> <'> Malika.

and sorry I forgot this is the link about absence seizure. http://www.emedicine.com/Neuro/topic3.htm