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rainbow queen

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  1. i also applyed about nov and id sent them copy of all my stuff-they sent it back and told me to keep my stuff handy as id get a phone call- not had one yet i e mailed them to check they got my application and they said yes but i heard nowt since should i e mail again asking for waiting time?
  2. hi i just read on the internet that if your primary school child has to travel 2 miles to school they should pay you the petrol if you take them yourselfs? is this correct? i dont get anyone taking my son,i take him myself -i recently moved so the school is further away its mainstream ,and my son dont have statement[school action plus].[not dx as at present] just wondered if i was missing out on this ? as i dont know lot of info regarding everything yet.
  3. my thoughts are with you,i lost my father in law to an ulcer [stomach] that turned into cancer and it spread,i was pregnant at the time with my second son and my first was only 1-it upset me,that my boys never got to know him. but i am a firm beliver of the spirit world and know hes watching over them both now. sending you lots of love and peace xxx <'> <'> <'>
  4. i dont know if you know about this but since that other post about that winter fuel rebate[which i got thanks to who started thread] i got a pack of british gas with leaflets in and this was one of them-that i never knew about it says its british gas energy trust-to be able to apply must be customer of british gas or scottish gas, trust can help people through giving grants to- ;reduce or clear gas or electric debt or help with other essential household bills or costs, how grant is paied-grants to cover electric/gas arrears are paid direct to the company on your behalf grants are not loans and do not have to be paied back applications must be on standard form-[guess u could ring up ask for form] proof of income/relevent bills /evidence of any speccial circumstances such as DISABILITY ect... must be sent with application form ive just sent of for application form[as just moved and do owe money to powergen] just to see what they can do. it says forms available by writing to british gas energy trust po box 42 peterborough pe3 8xh or ring 01733 421060 www.britishgasenergytrust.org.uk bget@charisgrants.com if anyone interested
  5. <'> <'> <'> THANK YOU EVERYONE MY PARENTS GOT ME A CAKE BUT I DIDNT HAVE A PARTY-ALTHOUGH MY SIS TOOK ME AND BOYS TO WACKY WAREHOUSE FRI NIGHT FOR A MEAL-WHICH WAS FUN[sEEING THE LOOKS ON OTHERS FACES WHEN MY SON WAS KICKING OFF-BUT WE GOT THROUGH NOT TO BAD] I GOT A COMPUTER CHAIR THATS REALLY COMFY-JUST SO I CAN SIT IN COMFORT READING ALL YOUR POSTS HA LOVE U ALL REGARDS MARIE XXXX P>S SUZE I WILL TRY TO COME
  6. <'> <'> <'> good luck and hope it goes well i recently moved on 7th nov and still sorting stuff out just take one day at a time and keep calm <'> <'> <'>
  7. im so pleased that im not the only one thanks for all the replys everything that was said is just what happens to my son it all started like you said to when he was very young with kitchen cupboard doors and progressed to all the other doors mentioned.
  8. yes i would say its assult then if there 12 has no one said at the school about how serious it is? is he badley hurt or got bruises if so id take a picture of him just in case for evidence
  9. hi folks excuse me as im not well up on all this stuff in fact im kept in the dark really about what should be happening my sons 4 on action plus at school,he has been dx with global deveelopmental delay-hes year behind with lang currently believe he has as and still awaiting camhs ect.... do i request a statement for him as i think the school dont tell me enough or actually take what i say about him very serious? and to be honest i dont think they are very up on these matters any advice gratefull regards marie x
  10. oh thats awfull. i ask my 4 year old everyday if anyones been nasty to him at school as he would never just tell me so i go through a load of questions with him to every night. he dont ever tell much about what goes on im going to ask for that book what i saw on another post so they can write stuff in and i can. i did get out of him that a certain girl keeps pushing him-so i wrote a short note to teacher saying about it-they said they keep an eye out. these things only take a minute and of course they r not watched every min--it makes me worry to i hope your son sees the pic of who did it, hope hes ok? <'>
  11. so sick of the hassel we have regarding going through doors ect,,,,, anyone else deal with this?
  12. just wanted to add you dont have to be verbal and have tics for tourettes-not everyone is same. my nephew has tourettes and its mainly movements that have effected him-like neck twitching,body movements ect..... my son has always made shakey body movements like quivers and recently started twitching his neck and [well im not quite sure how u put it in words] but odd movements of face neck and whole body,but i have no dx for him yet only global developmental delay-hes being monitored and assessed for possible as and other things- but my nephew he got dx with as and tourettes and ocd[he dont do the swearing or much vocal stuff], must add he eventually got dx in his 20s.
  13. oh my mum 22boys you sound just like me my 4 year old has the probs but my 3 year old also dose that what you said-i thought hed learnt it too off 4 year old but im not sure now im going my gp on mon to ask about if he could have probs too. he bit and headbutted a lady in the que at sainsburys while my 4 year old ran round the shop squeling like a pig------really are at my wits end ----no more will i take them to shop together but as for school as im single mum i have to take both at same time and it very often happens just like you said,the head has seen it to in my case and tryed suggested sticker ###### chart for it
  14. <'> hi my mum, gave up few years back and she had smoked for years and years-she used zyban from the gp and swore it helped her also alan carrs book about giving up which is really good i my self have smoked on and off for years now been given up since last may -due to being single again as i find when im in relationships it makes me more stressed and i smoke. but mainly health reasons had lot probs with abnormal cells in the cervix and was told smoking can contribute to it......still undergoing checks and possible treatment, also its healther for my son who been dx with asthma. i dont drink much now as i found this triggered me off wanting to smoke. i feel lot better and have more cash and try to eat more healther. i wish you luck as its really hard,and with demanding children-im afraid ive replaced cigs with more cups of tea im also on tablets though and think this has helped to calm me down and helped me not craving for the release of a cig.
  15. i understand what you are saying . but if they dare throw that at me-i will say well there you go you actually get the evidence and because you dont actually want to hear about[cause of money -again] you turn it around with that excuse. my health visitor and social services have had dealings with me before and are aware im a good parent and my gp. i have been visited at home a few times and there is evidence but i want to back it up with the extreme difficult situations my son finds which they never actually see like- getting up in morning and actually getting dressed brushing teeth transition from hallway to attempted going some where controlling my younger son but most all the literal conversations or should i say arguments he has with me-what better evidence can you get but hearing it straight from his own mouth hes passive in class and wont co operate with strangers so no one ever hardly sees the side that i and my family do------and you know what i think sometimes they glad they dont because they dont want to admit that another child needs extra goverment money spending on them.
  16. if she has ntl you can stop folk ringing who with hold there number as many of these firms do.its free.they cant get through if they with hold the number.
  17. during past 6 months this has become more of an issue with my son[although it was reported about in his autistic test when he was very younger] but now a days he can smell everything around him-and complains about it an awfull lot some of the smells he remarks on are- petrol cat wee fresh air chimneys bonfire poo perfume peoples tea on there breathe-what theyve eaten list is endless i wouldnt mind but i cant smell these things most of the time and he demands i tell him what the smell is he even remarks to people you smell[of course they dont see it the way he means it ] i end up muttering "oh its just fresh air" when he quizs me -half the time i cannot smell it.
  18. i received ?25 in vouchers from the care centre because my sons dla to use for treatments at our local college. i had full body massage with oils,took all the stress right out of me-have booked for some more think they are worth it. its cheaper at the college as they are students but still very proffesional- was ?7.50 for this. am going try swedish one next then reflexology/indian head massage. i felt alot better afterwards really calm. EVERY LITTLE THING HELPS
  19. yes i got told same thing- im still waiting for camhs appointment been told all of them together will do dx. seen autistic speech therapist twice/educational teacher woman/ot/normal salt/--well seen all lot to be honest except child pychiatrist. hes been under cdc seen little[4 now].started school in sept on school action plus.
  20. it was ?30 but there was cheaper ones but this one takes normal size audio cassettes that you can put in any hi-fi[as the other ones are micro tapes] and id have trouble giving people copys of these. i do also own a camcorder but thought taping his voice may be bit easier and lighter to carry about and he cant see me doing it as much-as you tend to need to be quick to get the moments on tape. a while back i did record him on video on my mobile we i showed to his drs at hospital they did observe it but im thinking they thought it may be one offs- it was on a trip back from seeing santa last year and he screamed blue murder all the way in the place and back down the road on way home my mum had to drag him home so i though as i had phone with me id tape it.
  21. my son isnt too bad -its the getting there process thats the trouble like changing his clothes to pjs-he just hates changing clothes[same in morning] he will wake up with what ive been told by dr night terrors several times about an hour or two after hes gone off sleep. he screams and crys and have to go in his room several times.
  22. dont know much about this lot myself but it seems wrong i have asked twice for those assessments u say about to my sons social worker and twice hes never got round to it or got in touch_yeah i should follow it up theres never enough time to sort all this cr*p out what we have to do its not right why should we have to do all the work why dont they offer these things when they deal with you all comes back to money dont it
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