I'd say <'> Welcome <'> .....
.....and I'd say you sound interesting! I am always heaving a sigh inside whenever I go to a 'get together' because 98 per cent of what most people come out with at social gatherings (especially family ones) is utter tedium! (Me included!) It's not that I think I know better or anything, I just cant 'connect' to conversations about the price of houses, or what colour wedding dress Jordan has, etc, etc. If someone asks my opinion I find it impossible not to tell the truth....this means I always end up standing by myself eventually!!! so you sound just my cup of tea