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Hope you've had a great day. Thanks for the bacardi breezer and sausages on sticks!!! Can I come round again next week!!!!??!!!!!??!!!! <'> <'> <'> <'>

Makes me cry:-Don't give up. Makes me dance :- Jump (for my love) Brings back memories:-Time after Time(Cyndi Lauper) All Time Fave:Time (Sarah McClachan) Hate to admit it :- Poison . I spent many a night changing the singles on my trusty turntable!!!!

OOH Constance carol lipgloss,, did anyone get the chocolate fudge flavour? I could never find it.I think I had boring mint or something. Bring back Pacers, spangles , creme eggs that were 50% bigger,texan bars, hong kong Phooey, Monkey magic! Berni Inns, steak and strawberries! Jumpsuits, Duran Duiran (although they are naff now)The list goes on . OOh the pet shop boys, Erasure.................... Quattro fizzy pop,Terry's orange bars with ridges!!!!! Shaggy perms, Inverted bobs, etc, etc, etc................

I agree with what everyone else says. You are an Adult, we're not on the playground now!!!! In this life people are precious and if you find a good friend that is priceless. It's your partners brother that needs to grow up!! and he will in time. Take care Hev, you're a Star!!! <'>

What rotten luck!!!! You'll find a much better place! <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> Oh and if you want me to beat Baddad up for you.....just let me know!!!!

Actually Hev I think I'll just get my red and white make up out and do my Adam Ant thing:- "prince charming, Prince charming, Ridicule is nothing to be scared of " ( Is that Baddad, do you think??) Do a little dance....... ... THis party rocks !! Just getting the stripes on my cheeks and maybe can dig out my Ra-Ra skirt !!!!!!!

THat's really sweet <'> <'> <'> <'> <'>

Hope everthing goes well later and that this silly parent shows herself up when it is explained what happened !!!!!! <'> <'>

WOO HOO . HAPPY BIRTHDAY HAPPY BIRTHDAY HEV!!!!!!!!!!# What time's the party? Are there going to be sausages on sticks and trifle? Mine's a bacardi breezer!!!! Must find something to wear!!!!! <'> <'> <'> Unfortunatly I dance like a ....... ( 80's chick !!) Have a great day

Hailey,I'm really sorry to hear about your experience.You don't deserve to be treated this way chuck It's only recently that you have been hit by this bomb shell and it's natural that you would be feeling so sad about it all.How is your Mum treating you now? It sounds like it was a shock for her too, and your Dad. Sometimes it takes time to deal with something like this, (to get your head round it), however, your feelings of betrayal, hurt and abandonment are very real and maybe talking it all through with a counsellor would help? I really don't know how to help. But these things have a huge effect. I remember when I was about 10, I found out through an Auntie that her son, my cousin, was adopted.For some reason my mum denied it and said " I don't know where you get these things from" (implying I was Lying etc) Anyway to cut a long story short, it is true ,he is adopted , but I lost my trust in my Mum that day and was convinced that i too was adopted and kept asking for my birth certificate which she could never find.I aren't adopted But it made me distrust the things that I was told , from this time on I second guessed everything she said.That small thing affected me.Made me not believe evrything that I was told by the people I trusted. I really hope this whole situation gets better. Your Mum's feeling s towards you haven't changed and I'm sure the man you called Dad, his feelings haven't changed either, You are still their daughter. Do you think for your own well being that you could try to forgive them for their mistakes? It's amazing how forgiving someone sets Us free from the hurt. All the best Hailey, hope this year brings some really good things to remember. <'> <'> <'>

<'> <'> I'm so glad you posted, I really hope today is a better day for you both <'> <'> I keep reading on this forum about people getting respite and buddies who act as a friend for their kids to give the parents a break. Could you ask at your docs if there is anything in your area. You really need some support in real terms. Will check in on you later. <'>

TM---- I am signing off for the night, but am really worried about you. I really hope you are okay and post soon just to let us know you are okay, even if you don't want to talk. Sending loads of <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> I really hope tomorrow brings a better day <'> <'> <'> <'>

Thanks everyone for your support, shows what a difference we make in each others life.I feel so much stronger now just through everyone's replies and support. <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> <'>

There is definitly something in the water!! Aren't we wonderful, what we have to put up with???!!!!!!!!

Hope you have a lovely time tomorrow with Kierans birthday! Just watch his face , I bet it's a picture!! Save us all a piece of cake wont you? <'> <'>

I'm really glad you feel a bit better today. i hope they get their skates on with the asssessment so that you know where you are and where to get some support. <'> <'>

Glad you had a good time, it's something you need and will give hubby a chance to bond more with the babe. Look after yourself. you're a star <'>

I feel really angry about this! I'm tempted to say that this lad got what he deserved and if anyone's to blame it is the school!!!! If these lads were surrounding your boy, where were the staff? if they knew he was being bullied why weren't they taking care to monitor the situation? In fact someone is negligent here! Your boy has obviously taken about as much as he can take and It's the bullies that need to be dealt with NOT the victim. These boys were surrounding yours? A scary enough situation with the addition of ASD. Chanting at him? How does that feel to anyone let alone someone who has sensory issues? This is awful, I hope you ask and get some answers! when your son is there you expect him to be safe and cared for!!! Sending <'> <'> <'> <'> to you, hubby and son <'> <'> <'> <'>

Hi Adams mum, Hope you are feeling a little better now?I've only just got over a horrible cold/flu virus thingy and it really does drain you.Are you able to have a rest now? Put your feet up. I hope you have a good nights sleep and feel better tomorrow. <'> <'>

Is there something in the water, we all seem to be feeling it these last few weeks!!! I hope everything calms a little for you. Hang in there <'> <'>

I was going to say the benefits would be so good for you and think of it that way and try and be brave etc, Then I realised it is like when my son is frightened and doesn't want to go somewhere, no matter how hard anyone tries to make him do it or tell him how good it will be, he cannot be swayed. I suppose it starts with a step, I'm a real coward with these kind of things but you have already taken steps towards this so you must have realised that it was starting to make you miserable. I agree that it would be good to talk through the procedure with your doc and air your concerns. My Uncle had cataracts removed last year and he was so frightened that he asked to have a general ansthetic even though it is a procedure that is usually done with a local anasthetic, If you asked him now he would say it is one of the best things that he has ever had done. I really hope your doc can settle your worries a bit. You CAN do this. <'> <'> <'> <'>

I've just found this post to try to find out what triggered your little boy and the way you are feeling on your other post and my heart breaks for you. Yesterday was a very bad day for me and I had to vent on here and we had to visit the docs, he was screaming and blaming me, it's your fault, you made me upset, why??? I know how you are feeling and maybe it's the feeling of hopelessness in these situations because we can't make them feel better because they reject us. But your son loves you and his dissapointment is hurting him. Your sister has a lot to answer for, I really feel for you and your little one. Please take a bit of time . You need some support , is there anyone to come round for a coffee etc? You are both in my prayers , hang in there chuck. <'>

,, The poem under your posts is beautiful, something in that poem touched you and gave you hope.Read it again. "You're gonna fly with every dream that you chase, " You're gonna cry but know that that's okay, " sometimes life's not fair but if you hang in there, " you're gonna see that sometimes bad is good, " We just have to believe, things work out like they should, " lIfe has no guarantees, But Always Loved By Me, You're Gonna Be" <'>

Oh duckie, Take a mo and have a cuppa. <'> <'> <'> <'> We're here for you , tell us what has happened. You are a good mum and we care about you. <'> <'> <'> <'> <'>

Hope you had a good time yesterday, tell us all about the juicy details!!