Thanks for all your replies so far i will go through the links.
On the education front DS has had a statement for just over 12 months now and it is now overdue review which i suppose is quite a good thing as now that can be tweaked a little bit to account for his diagnosis.
He currently attends a special school for children with ESBD,so i think he is in the right place for him at the moment, i do believe they have teachers that have undergone specialist training to help pupils with ASD.
He has just started in year 6, so we do now have the decision to make as to whether to try and transfer him back into mainstream to continue his education next september, but his school he is at now has just been extended to be able to take them up to year 9, so he may well stay there for a little longer.
I think for now we need to concentrate on making sure he is being educated in the right way to take into account of his diagnosis now. So i think it will take a few weeks for the final report and the diagnosis to get to the school and then i will go in and have a meeting with them to see where we go from here.
Thanks again for all your help.
Ruth
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