Despite having a son with ASD it wasn't until I read Born on A Blue Day that it came together for me too:o)
I struggled as a teenager thought everyone was crazy as 'they' didn't understand the rules. My inability to see shades of grey still gets me in trouble occasionally ( especially if tired or stressed when I can forget the rules). Moving far away from home helped me - I didn't have a back story in the big city, Slowly, I have build myself a fantastic career. My thought problems, in the right environment can be seen as creative and helped me stand out in a positive light. Remember you have to believe in yourself - go with you opinions and ideas, but ( and it's a big but) you need to learn to play the social games. For me feigning an interest in football and cars helped remove the 'weird' tag. Good luck.