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Helen2

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  1. My goodness thats not a good thing to happen its a shame it has to reach that point to get help, ross had his first outburst at school where he just started punching himself in the head, normally its at home he erupts, the senco is trying with him and gets him out once a week to tlk about school she is very supportive but very stretched at the same time
  2. your mail is a big help thank you it took me ages to get someone to help me and once i went to the doctour and asked for a referal, it only took a year to get a diagnosis, i thought great cause know i can get the help i need.this is where the problem is i cant seem to get any help he needs alsorts off support my son wont go in the canteen at school and wont even eat the lunch i send with him i have to work so am not able to get him at lunch time, the good thing is there is only me and my son at home so he gets my full attention, its just me that could do with some help and support into how i can help him with some off his problems .hope you gat a diagnosis soon, did you always know there was something diffrent about your son ??
  3. thank you yes i will look into dyspraxia, i also understand how he feels about suicide which is why it upsets me to here him talking about it, although i have never attempted it the toughts have been there, i have suffered depression on and off for years , stay strong and thank you for your reply
  4. thank you so much for your reply, yes he saves it all for home, its just me and him and thankfully i am understanding and there to help him we dont get any support from family so it can be tough.i always sit with him till he calms down then i give him time to talk so he has got very good at telling me where things have upset him. we then talk this through , and i contact school if there is any way theyy can help with the prob i just need support in how i can get him more involved in life outside the front door his mental health and the fact he cant use his hands properly,
  5. Thank you school have mentioned cahms to me sadly a girl in his school killed herself, this set ross off thinking its ok to kill youself and talked about suicide for weeks, very upsetting!! this tends to come and go. as for his not being able to open packets ect, yes his hand writting is unreadable he cant ride a bike i call him cack handed. he just cant use his hands, cutlery he looks like a toddler he has lots off other probs we seem to be able to cope in our own home enviroment its when we go out and school is the biggest issue!! Thanks for your mail,
  6. Sinse my son was born i knew he wasnt the same as others all through school i asked for help, but they all said he was fine just sensative and shy!! he had lots of social issues in school and out as well as other motor problem skills simple things like not being able to open packets and put socks on ect, as he got older he was more awaire off his being diffrent this presented as depression and i went several times to the doctours. they sent us away saying its just his age, nobody would listen to me till he went to the seniors , it was so traumatic we both ended up in tears and the senco was very good and sat me down and for the first time listened to me!!! she helped a lot and within a year he was diagnosed with asperges this made so much sense, the problem with my son is he is so well behaved in school as this is what is expected off him he shows no emotions and by the time he gets home his anxiety leavels have built up so much he just expodes, anger tears frustration etc, school are trying to help, but what help should i be able to get for him, at home i can keep his enviroment happy and trips out are very organised and planned, but school is a big problem!! What should i do? he needs some sort off mental help he talks often about wanting to be dead and why me etc!! what help do others get for there children with asperges? Thank you.
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