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I'm not putting down people with aspergers. I am new to this forum and I'm also new to being in a relationship with somebody with aspergers. I do find it hard to say things . And how to write it down. I'm learning about aspergers everyday . I didn't know it existed till I met my boyfriend let alone anything about it.

Thanks guys for your replys, smiley 1590 you are right with what you have said. baddad i do find what you have said quite harsh. You are makeing it sound like it is all my fault and that im not good in any relationships. Have or are you in a relationship with somebody who has aspergers ? if you are then you should know what its like. If not then you dont know what your talking about.

I wonder if anybody can help me. I'm in a relationship and my boyfriend has aspergers. He was diagnosed with it over 2 years ago. I've been with him now for 19 months. It's not been an easy or nice 19 months. Every day is a new challenge, not knowing what mood he is in and what's going to happen. It's taken me this long to come to tearms with how he is and reacts to things. I myself are abit like him, but the only thing I do struggle with in are relationship is the physical and intermit side of it. I'm just wondering if anybody else is going threw what I am being the NT, and how you are dealing with it ? When my boyfriend and I got together things were great between us physically and intermacy .Now things have stoped. We don't have sex anymore and he says it's cause he doesnt have any sex drive. We don't have cuddles anymore, and even kissing is getting rare. It's just the physical things like that that I'm finding hard. We do talk about it but I still find it hard as I'm use to very physical and intermit relationships . Can anybody please advise me on what to do ? And how to cope ?