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      Depression, Mental Health and Crisis Support   06/04/2017

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  1. Hi Karen, that's a great decision youve made <'> . I hope J settles down soon <'> and I'm sure he'll love HE! I know my boy would! Evaxx
  2. My friends don't like me...

    Hi Nikki, my son says the same things too - he's 7 and has AS. He goes to a local primary school and is falling through that social gap. He says other kids don't like him and he has no one to play with. It's not true about other kids not liking him - they ask him to play - but the trouble is he doesn't know how to play their games, and prefers to wander around 'daydreaming'. (Unless it's an organised game on the play equipment or hide and seek or something like that). My son told me that he gets confused and doesn't know what to do and it's too difficult, (playing with other kids.) The school has been sort of helpful. Twice a week at lunchtimes he's allowed to use the computer, another day he goes to Artclub, and there's the Dr Who club. He now also has two older 'buddies' who will go to the clubs with him at lunchtimes. My son is happiest in class too because it is structured. It's heartbreaking when your child is so unhappy <'> Is there a teacher at school who can organise games/books or something at lunchtimes for him - and other kids? It took ages for the school to listen to us and acknowledge that my son needed more structure. Eva <'>
  3. Hi, I used to give my son Movicol and it was great. I gave it to him after school so there was no worry about accidents and now he only goes to the toilet to poo in the evenings - sort of trained his bowels. We've weaned him off it now but it was a life-saver! Eva
  4. New here.

    Hi Enissa, I have a 7 year old son with AS and I live in Australia too - Victoria. Please to meet you! Eva
  5. Total meltdown at school

    Hi Karen, just thought I'd send you some <'> <'> <'> . I like your point that J's always autistic - we have that problem at school too, that my J looks like he's coping, therefore how could there possibly be a problem? The teacher asks J how he's going and he says, 'good', so everything is just fine, according to them. <'> Evaxx
  6. Listening in class

    Hi everyone, I was wondering if people had any ideas/strategies about how to help my son listen in class (My son is 7 and has AS and he's in a mainstream primary school). Yesterday I was helping out in class and the teacher was telling the children about fiction and non-fiction, (this is a prep/grade 1 composite so the kids range from 5-7 years old). As she was talking and asking questions, I watched as my son turned around and ended up staring out the door, daydreaming, so eventually he was sitting on the floor, facing the other way . The teacher wrote what they were all saying on the board, but my son had tuned out from the very start . What would be an effective way to make sure my son is tuning in to the important part of the lesson? Or should I ask the teacher to give me any new topics the day before so I can go over them at home with my son? Any ideas welcome! Eva
  7. Tea or Coffee what are you having?

    Hiya Fran, yeah, going to pick up J from school soon so thought I'd have a look here instead of doing the dishes...is it too late in the day to have a coffee? Eva
  8. Another newbie intoroduction..

    Hi MOTB, I'm in Australia (Victoria) too - I can't remember how I found this site originally, but it was through a link somewhere. I have a 7 year old son who is diagnosed with AS. Welcome to the forum - it's a very supportive place! My other son is trying to help me type so that's all from me now - look forward to getting to know you more. Eva
  9. Tea or Coffee what are you having?

    Well now, strong lattes I like but not instant coffee. The local bakery makes such good coffee that I have one before doing housework - extra energy! I've gone off Earl G tea for some reason and now drink loads of Bushells or English Breakfast, white no sugar. I haven't had a coffee today . Eva
  10. Son withdrawing

    Hi BusyLizzie, my son calls his internal world 'daydreaming' too! He spends a lot of time daydreaming and as he's getting older, (he's 7 and diagnosed with AS), he seems to be doing it more. (If he's daydreaming in the evening, he calls it 'nightdreaming'). My son does the same sort of thing as yours, as he's walking along he's living out a different world in his head, and he hums and sort of sings. He'll answer some questions sometimes, but most of the time he's thinking and talking about Ben 10. School is getting hard socially for my son now and I suspect he's daydreaming a lot there. He finds school very tiring and exhausting and he has no idea why the other kids do the things they do . Just wanted to let you know that my son is a bit the same <'> and I'm interested in people's thoughts too. Eva
  11. Greenwich Meetup

    Have fun everyone in Greenwich! Is that pronounced 'Green witch'? Eva
  12. my positive thread

    My children ate everything I made for dinner, without gagging/turning pale at the sight of the food/clutching at their throats/saying it's disgusting... Well done loobylou2! That's great about your daughter's transition Bagpuss - I always get stress headaches and a sore neck from worrying, and a sore jaw.
  13. Feel like I've failed miserably.........

    Hi Marion <'> <'> I know how frustrating this is. In my son's first semester school report a couple of weeks ago, (he's 7, diagnosed with AS, has auditory processing disorder, possibly innattentive ADHD too and goes to a mainstream ps), the teacher commented that he needs to, 'listen more in class', and he 'needs to learn to work more independently', but with no comment how she is actually going to help him - such as more visual cues like written instructions. Hmm. The teacher has been to two professional development days with Tony Attwood this year. I wonder if she nipped out to the local cafe instead and sat there sipping on cappucino's the whole time. Oh yes, my son was very unhappy during the last week of school before the holidays, and didn't want to go to school - social issues in the playground - and the teacher said, 'he looks fine to me'. So I know how frustrating this is I'm sorry to hear that you lost <'> <'>. Eva
  14. brilliant news!!!

    That's unreal Hev!! <'> Eva
  15. So much for logical reasoning

    Hi Karen, that's so funny! Evaxx