shellz2

hiya, my 27yrs old son has Aspergers diagnosis since 21yrs old. We had been going through it all since he was 2yrs. Due to his behaviour as he got older and went with the crowd and taken cannabis and cocaine of a week end( which I feel aggravated his behaviour) he got his own flat,i helped him get all he needed and luckily he was given work as a window cleaner whereas he was picked up n taken to jobs n dropped off home later, I have had difficulty in keeping up with tax,ins,bills etc...he has recently had a panic attack over stressed about bills( I was sorting them from working tax and DLA) but with drugs influence and him trying to be like all mates got behind with all as he demands the money from me as he is 27yrs old...and it belongs to him. has walked away from work. He now has to go on jsa I assume....he has issues with interviews,wont go on buses,cant handle unfamiliar places,people etc. wont go shopping ..basically wont go anywhere without me or friend...barbers,shops,appointments.....and now DLA has been refused (I have asked for it to be looked at again)..I assume my carers will stop now,and don't know what I am supposed to do..do I go on jsa?..or wait till they review dla?..will my housing benfit,c.tax all be stopped...like my son says does this mean that I am no longer able to take him where ever n be there for him?.has he now not got \Aspergers.......please help with any advice.....I am on a budget but feel if I am to go on jsa I am telling my son go do on your own.....thanks

hello all. not sure I am on right forum for this, but here goes,my 27yrs old son who lives on own has just had his dla stopped..i have rang and asked for them to look at it again..they are...the issue is that my carers will stop I assume now...do I ring them and then apply for jsa?....I receive income support with carers ( this because of my son)...like he stated to me does this mean I don't have Aspergers anymore and I don't have your help?.....I am worried sick and it has been hard as he can get quite aggressive verbally ..and goes into panic attacks through being anxious....please advise thankyou