Well ,this is all very weirdfor me-just diagnosed at 68! So am processing all the lucky strategies i used to get through a career and sort of bring up 3 children ,but as these weren't very spontaneous I am now burnt out -its hard and tiring using srategies to socialise, and I sympathise with the tough challenges you face. This is very new but try Dr. Martha Herbert's books as she -and Temple Grandin (on TEDx talks)suggests we are very special unusually talented people with some thing special to offer the world. Me? I'm attempting to study Sound Healing-seems powerful-and you don't have to be a musician. All the best