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  1. You must understand that it is COMPLETELY normal for your 17 year old to watch porn, whether it be homosexual or heterosexual porn. There is nothing to be worried about in regards to this. It is 100% usual behaviour for an adolescent to start discovering their sexuality in any way they can, especially if they are homosexual as this may be difficult for him to do so in real life. Just because he watches homosexual porn does not mean he has a porn addiction, or has some sort of sexual disorder. To be honest, it is no one's business whether he watches homosexual porn or not. You must also realise that no legal action will take place if he is just viewing porn. HOWEVER, there may be a problem with the content of the porn. Does it involve illegal activities such as non-consensual sex, or underage actors, etc? Or is it just normal/legal? If so, leave him to it. If not, definitely try to approach a professional about this. If he is unwilling to open up to you, then you must take further action. Just try not to jeopardize your relationship with your son if he is just exploring his own sexuality. Otherwise, this may prove very difficult for him and yourself. Good luck!
  2. Hey everyone, I study psychology at university, and after having a lecture on the autism spectrum, something clicked. THIS is what I have been experiencing all my life. It's not the anxiety and depression I have been officially diagnosed with. It all suddenly made sense to me. All of my interpersonal issues fit very neatly into it. Here's a little overview of my symptoms: I have real trouble knowing what is the right thing to say, when to say it, constantly struggling to maintain conversations and personal relationships. I have had sexual relationships in the past, but I really struggle with this. I just DON'T know what to do or how to act. This gives me the greatest trouble of all of my symptoms. I was always a very quiet child due to the above reasons, was predicted to get mainly D's and C's in school but came out mainly with straight A's. I loved computers and technology. I often get fixated on a specific subject. This can be anything. Psychology is one, space and physics is another, and jazz music is another. My current friends always laugh at me as it's always me coming out with little facts which I have picked up lol. I'm VERY sensitive to sound, which I think is also why I love music so much. I notice the little tiny things that others don't. But this also means that some noises drive me insane!!! I don't think I have any problems with language itself, but I still have problems with interpersonal issues. I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I'm 21 in April, and my doctor has no idea about these symptoms. All my life I just thought I was 'different' but now it makes sense. I want to visit my GP and tell them about this, but they always have a go at me when I've been 'googling' stuff (which is a very fair point), but this is different! What do I do? How do I approach the subject? What's your story?
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