Hi
I.I have mild aspergers myself, very mild but even with me my husband would say it can be a problem we have good weeks and not so good.How badly is he affected?How much does it affect your lives?What does he want to do?A diagnosis doesnot unfortunately mean you will get all the help you need and its one thing knowing you have it another having it confirmed.You then have the coming to terms with it.DO you have any children?That might be some thing else to consider.Its not an easy desision to make but best of luck, keep us informed.I know how draining aspergers can be and also how distressing.Feel free to pm me if you wish.