Frangipani Report post Posted October 10, 2007 Hi Mumble, Lovey, we all have our ups and downs - good days and bad. I wasn't around have no idea what went wrong. Was hoping we could draw a line in the sand and step over it. Don't look back. Please come back, we miss you <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> . I miss your posts and your wit and good sense of humour. Don't be a stranger - you have many friends here. We don't always see eye to eye - but not all relationships are perfect. Some are worth working at. Hope this finds you in good spirits. Let it all go. Hope you come back soon. Love Frang xx <'> <'> <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KateBall Report post Posted October 10, 2007 Hi Mumble, Lovey, we all have our ups and downs - good days and bad. I wasn't around have no idea what went wrong. Was hoping we could draw a line in the sand and step over it. Don't look back. Please come back, we miss you <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> . I miss your posts and your wit and good sense of humour. Don't be a stranger - you have many friends here. We don't always see eye to eye - but not all relationships are perfect. Some are worth working at. Hope this finds you in good spirits. Let it all go. Hope you come back soon. Love Frang xx <'> <'> <'> WHAT SHE SAID AND MORE Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted October 10, 2007 Yup, what Fran said <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted October 10, 2007 Mumble, hope you feel you can join us again soon, Fran has said it all. Take care & thinking of you. Clare x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted October 10, 2007 Yes, hurry up and get your cyber bottom back here! Who else can I show off too when I've been to see Lee?!! <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
reggubasti Report post Posted October 10, 2007 Please come back, Mumble. Miss you, and your interesting posts. We need you, don't let it drive you away. Take care. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
bid Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Hope you are OK, Mumble <'> Bid Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pragmatic Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Mumble, I have not been reading or posting a lot recently so have no idea what is going on- however, no matter it is I am sure your the kind of person that is able to step over it and carry on your fantastic input to this forum.. I am not very good at saying nice words but I do hope that you draw a line on whatever happened and let us have a share of your wonderful life and experience. <'> >< Pragmatic Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wishingwell Report post Posted October 11, 2007 (edited) Mumble I really miss you on the forum. I don't know what happened. Think about all the good you are doing to help others on here. I value your insight. Please come back when you are ready. Take care of yourself <'> and bounce back soon. Edited October 11, 2007 by wishingwell Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
smiley Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Mumblie...?????? I haven't the faintest idea what's going on / happened. But hope you're ok <'> <'> (special mumblie-cyber-hug) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mumble Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Thank you everyone <'> I have very little recollection of 'that' night and I don't want to drag up past events. I am truely, truely sorry to anyone I have upset in anyway - I would never, ever intend for this to happen. I really value the support people on this forum have given to me since February - my tutor was talkng to me today about how far I've come in a year and it was only by stopping, thinking and taking stock for a while that I realised just how far, and actually how recent my diagnosis has been in relation to the whole rest of my life. Since I was diagnosed, this forum has been amazing - I really don't know how I would have coped without all of your support - both aspie understanding and NT 'translation' of events I haven't a clue about. I was asked by SBC to think about setting up a local support group or a uni student support group - and then I thought that I couldn't do better than what you all offer. What makes this place unique is the bringing together of ASDs, other NDs and NTs for mutual support and understanding - and there's precious little of that at times in the busy world we inhabit where people are more concerned about themselves and anything they don't understnd is perceived as dangerous. I guess what I'm trying (badly) to say is thank you. To everyone who has PM'ed me - I will get back to each of you individually but it may take a bit of time. I really value that you do care and have been concerned - this isn't something I have ever had before and so I'm not always sure how to handle such things - I'm sorry if anyone has been worried. Call it karma if you will but I've been suitably punished with a large dose of 'uni flu' (and given that I didn't engage in any Freshers activities having Freshers flu isn't fair!!!). I saw SBC earlier this week and had a drink with him - he's given me so much to think about and has, for now, helped me to understand the good and bad of being AS. I'm feeling ok at the moment (and things seem to be looking up at uni as of today, although I don't want to get my hopes up), but that doesn't mean there won't be bad days - this is inevitable for anyone, AS or otherwise. I have a difficult week coming up personally next week - I'll be around on here but I may not post much - but I do want you all to realise how much I value you all and the support you give. Thank you Mumble Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
KateBall Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Thank you everyone <'> I have very little recollection of 'that' night and I don't want to drag up past events. I am truely, truely sorry to anyone I have upset in anyway - I would never, ever intend for this to happen. I really value the support people on this forum have given to me since February - my tutor was talkng to me today about how far I've come in a year and it was only by stopping, thinking and taking stock for a while that I realised just how far, and actually how recent my diagnosis has been in relation to the whole rest of my life. Since I was diagnosed, this forum has been amazing - I really don't know how I would have coped without all of your support - both aspie understanding and NT 'translation' of events I haven't a clue about. I was asked by SBC to think about setting up a local support group or a uni student support group - and then I thought that I couldn't do better than what you all offer. What makes this place unique is the bringing together of ASDs, other NDs and NTs for mutual support and understanding - and there's precious little of that at times in the busy world we inhabit where people are more concerned about themselves and anything they don't understnd is perceived as dangerous. I guess what I'm trying (badly) to say is thank you. To everyone who has PM'ed me - I will get back to each of you individually but it may take a bit of time. I really value that you do care and have been concerned - this isn't something I have ever had before and so I'm not always sure how to handle such things - I'm sorry if anyone has been worried. Call it karma if you will but I've been suitably punished with a large dose of 'uni flu' (and given that I didn't engage in any Freshers activities having Freshers flu isn't fair!!!). I saw SBC earlier this week and had a drink with him - he's given me so much to think about and has, for now, helped me to understand the good and bad of being AS. I'm feeling ok at the moment (and things seem to be looking up at uni as of today, although I don't want to get my hopes up), but that doesn't mean there won't be bad days - this is inevitable for anyone, AS or otherwise. I have a difficult week coming up personally next week - I'll be around on here but I may not post much - but I do want you all to realise how much I value you all and the support you give. Thank you Mumble Hey Mumble - well done that girl. Welcome back. "What makes this place unique is the bringing together of ASDs, other NDs and NTs for mutual support and understanding - and there's precious little of that at times in the busy world we inhabit where people are more concerned about themselves and anything they don't understnd is perceived as dangerous" This is so true. There you go again - those words of wisdom. Try and have a good week despite what you think might be looming. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Lya of the Nox Report post Posted October 11, 2007 <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Mumble..... so glad to see you back. Sending you lots of Mumble style hugs <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> Clare x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
barefoot wend Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Mumble Really pleased to see you back. Barefoot Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bard Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Welcome back! <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bagpuss Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Hooray Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Good to see you, Mumble. I hope you get through the coming week OK. K x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
wishingwell Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Mumble thanks for coming back. <'> Hope everything goes well for you. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
tsmom Report post Posted October 11, 2007 I dont know what happened but im gald yr ok. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shars Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Hey Mumble - well done that girl. Welcome back. "What makes this place unique is the bringing together of ASDs, other NDs and NTs for mutual support and understanding - and there's precious little of that at times in the busy world we inhabit where people are more concerned about themselves and anything they don't understnd is perceived as dangerous" This is so true. There you go again - those words of wisdom. Try and have a good week despite what you think might be looming. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shars Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Mumble theres always a time to come and go .Wish you well .hope your coping and happy .Sometimes you just got to go forward.But always win ....Love and best wishes Shars Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
pearl Report post Posted October 11, 2007 <'> Glad you are back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
baddad Report post Posted October 11, 2007 Hi mumble - good to see you posting again... hope that flu's better soon L&P BD Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Frangipani Report post Posted October 11, 2007 just echoing what others have said <'> <'> Soooo happy you're back. <'> <'> Love Frang xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
annie Report post Posted October 12, 2007 Good to see you back Mumble. Hope you're feeling a bit better. Annie xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
reggubasti Report post Posted October 12, 2007 Glad you're back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Tally Report post Posted October 13, 2007 Good to see you Mumble I was upset by what happened and I don't even really know what happened, and I was worried about you because I know you'd been having a hard time of it too, but I didn't know what to say so I did the cowardly thing and said nothing. I'm glad you're back and I'm glad you're OK - apart from the flu, I hope that passes quickly. Welcome back, I missed you <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shars Report post Posted October 13, 2007 Mumble ,, Check in ,, it would be nice, sometimes ,,even short message,,, Shars xoxoxoxo Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bard Report post Posted October 13, 2007 Mumble ,, Check in ,, it would be nice, sometimes ,,even short message,,, Shars xoxoxoxo Errr She is back Shars, bouncing from thread to thread...staking her claim to Lee again, despite Baggy and Lisa's efforts. I still don't know what he looks like, so no change there! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
shars Report post Posted October 14, 2007 Eerrr,, always a click and a ring leader xoxoxox Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
