hev Report post Posted January 18, 2009 just met steve in town and my god he speaks to me awful,im partially sighted and for no reason on the way home he started calling me a blind c***!!a woman was on the other side of the road and i could have died,i didnt react ive just come in and gone upstairs,i will tell him later how bad it made me feel,im pleased i didnt react in the street but im fuming Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jannih Report post Posted January 18, 2009 just met steve in town and my god he speaks to me awful,im partially sighted and for no reason on the way home he started calling me a blind c***!!a woman was on the other side of the road and i could have died,i didnt react ive just come in and gone upstairs,i will tell him later how bad it made me feel,im pleased i didnt react in the street but im fuming Hi Hev That sounds really awful. Who is Steve , is he your son ? I find it difficult to reply as I do not know anything about you , but I do sympathise because no one should be spoken to like that . If he is your nearest and dearest , I think you should tell him that what he said was humiliating and upsetting and to imagine how he would feel if someone spoke to him in that manner in public. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
dooday24 Report post Posted January 18, 2009 sending u a big hug <'> <'> <'> <'> <'> hev think u need it u showed a lot of control not saying anything to him at the time.. love donnaxxxxx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Clare63 Report post Posted January 18, 2009 Well done Hev, you did the right thing. Hope things are better by now and that he has apologised to you. <'> <'> <'> Clare x x x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Enid Report post Posted January 18, 2009 Hev <'> <'> My 19yr NT speaks to me like this, he has been awful lately. I asked him to leave last weekend and he stayed at a mates for a few nights! he is home now but I have told him anymore nonsense and he is out, so we have an uneasy truce at the mo. Enid Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
niki Report post Posted January 18, 2009 oh honey i know have same prob at the mo! language not quite so bad but trikis attitude is totally deplorable at the mo. his mood swings are totally unbearable am hoping is hormones! <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Stella63 Report post Posted January 18, 2009 Hev Totally understand!!! Getting lots of the same. My name currently is 'the ######' when things are not goin the way he wants them and sometimes shouted extremely loudly outside the house with all the neighbours curtains twitching!! I am trying to remain the 'adult' and not going into 'child' mode where i shout back or get petulant etc. Lots of <'> <'> <'> Stella xx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suze Report post Posted January 19, 2009 Hi Hev , nice to see you back <'> , ignoring steve was exactly the right thing to do, hopefully when steve is calm you can chat about it and stress to him how you felt and how wrong it was to use such language and speak to you that way, hugs suzex Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites