Bluesbreaker Report post Posted September 19, 2011 been a while since i last logged in. what a weird time I'v had... left college, got too much for me, kids bullying me, then i would go through the correct channels, there would be tellings off and then the same would happen again, and again..... diagnosed with depression in january, can't remember if i told you lot or not, anyway idiot here decides not to take them mid-july, things went completely off the scale and I nearly ended up doing aggressive things I wouldn't normally do!!! needless to say I went back on the tablets!! looking for more work, still have the bar job, I nearly lost it as the boss was aggressive to me on the phone over a shift I hadn't turned up for (which i forgot about!), got verbal warning for 'attendance' and walked away scott free, then transpires that they didn't have a clue what Asperger's was!!!! yet i gave them ample notice and descriptions on the ruddy application form! anyway things are running smoother now, they know how to understand me now, which helps an awful lot. I don't understand myself half the time! LOL! still single, which i find really annoying, I do not know if other aspie's find this a problem like i do? (would be interesting to find out) left my old bands behind and joined a new one, with my former bass player, we have been going on non stop doing two practices a week and we are still hungry for lots more having tremendous fun and loving every minute of it, I have also been made a lead guitarist in the process, I didn't know my playing was that good in all honesty!! and that's me upto speed, thought i would just do it as one big thread thingy so its out the way and done with, lol. hope you lot are well and I hope the regulars are still about Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
darkshine Report post Posted November 13, 2011 busy year then Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Mandapanda Report post Posted November 18, 2011 Hi Bluesbreaker Welcome back! You've certainly sorted your way through some problems. Well done. No doubt more will crop up, just remember communication is important. Keep taking the tablets - I do (who says the drugs don't work ) Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Report post Posted November 18, 2011 Welcome back! Sounds as though you've had your ups and downs this year, hope things are a bit more stable. Good luck with the new band - lead guitarist eh! K x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Aeolienne Report post Posted January 21, 2012 still single, which i find really annoying, I do not know if other Aspies find this a problem like i do? (would be interesting to find out) FWIW I've been single all my life. left my old bands behind and joined a new one, with my former bass player, we have been going on non stop doing two practices a week and we are still hungry for lots more having tremendous fun and loving every minute of it, I have also been made a lead guitarist in the process, I didn't know my playing was that good in all honesty!! I wish I played in a group. hope you lot are well and I hope the regulars are still about How long / how often do you have to be here to be classed as a "regular"? Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
matzoball Report post Posted January 21, 2012 Hey kiddo - glad to see you back!! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites