Haze Report post Posted May 25, 2012 since my youngest was born we have never been taken serious that he was never meeting his milestones and now age 5 guess what they do admit his consulatnt he as needs support but yet again they fail no assesment no nothing iam sick to death of fighting the system why is it so hard he has enough evidence he his struggling hes even been assaulted and the police are currently involved but thats not enough for his consultant i have now accepted the proffesional are full of ###### and lie, i have accepted my life will always be 24hrs and ignorance towrds my son is always going to be there and we has a family have to struggle to survive the meltdowns , smashing, bashing and exclusions from school and my dd as to learn to cope with the bullying from the kids that my son naffs off hazexx Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sally44 Report post Posted May 26, 2012 I've felt exactly like that myself. But actually, most of those involved [local authority, LA and NHS professionals] DO KNOW what they should be doing, but they just don't because of the funding implications. And they do know the implications of the things you are experiencing with your child. What you need to do is stop thinking they are stupid. They are being savvy. YOU need to learn about the SEN system and then follow the process, by the letter of the law, and pin them into a corner so that they have to fulfill their responsibilities. Yes it is hard work and it is tiring. But you can get results. So don't give up. Get clued up. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
