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    Besides, do you know the rule of thumb for male-female relationships? The woman should be half the man's age +7...

    Don't shoot the messenger (unless it's Melida)

     

    :D

     

    Oh gawd :rolleyes: not that one again....

     

    *Runs and hides* ;)

     

     

    The chef man...... i think you'll find it is cos he's a scummy, dominant man type thing... But, who said anything about keeping him?? :whistle::devil:

     

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    Ohhhhh good - the screaming thread!!

     

    Could do with a bloomin' good moan......

     

    I am sore - as in morphine patches sore... :tearful: ... and confused most of the time, and so flippin' exhausted I've not been able to stay in contact with many friends........... never mind keep up with forums............ am waiting for the oh-so-wonderful specialist team in Southampton as I've baffled all the consultants near me... only a short, 2-3 month wait, so I'm told. :wallbash: Got up from the sofa this morning, to put on the kettle. Both legs went into spasm, and I ended up saying a rather close hello to the carpet..... So, so painful.. ALL the time. Ended up in resus at A&E for five hours, couple of weeks ago. Not fun.

     

    Mothers ill AGAIN.... 2 hour conversation this morning, trying to talk her down from a horrific hallucination... :crying: And I've just listened to a message on my answer phone (didn't have the energy to answer the phone... She's dyeing ........ apparently........... again......... Oh, and it's my fault.

     

    Monkey has his annual review on Friday - I still haven't finished the report...... :wallbash: My mind wont focus. Feel like a ###### mum.

     

    I've just had to film monkeys tourettes - for his paediatrician. Watched it back, and am now sat here in tears. The tics are so violent, and upset him so much.

     

    Thoroughly, thoroughly FED UP!!!!!!!!!!!

     

    AAAAAAAAARRRRRRRRRGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

     

    :wacko::unsure::crying:

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    Tally :(>:D<<'>

     

    My ex put me through years of these 'games'. It's horrible.

     

    One thing i would say - is to note down everything that happens, even if you can't be certain of it being him.

     

    I also brought new phones (changed numbers several times... but that didn't work, he always found the new number from someone.. even asking my son's school, once :wacko:). The new phones (landline and mobile) were they type that you could choose what sound was played, depending on what person was calling. It took some time, but i set them up so only numbers i knew would ring - the others were silent. Of course, it didn't stop him - but it was less stressful for me.

     

    I called the police, each and every time i felt threatened. They do absolutely nothing... but after a while - they get sick of you calling, and begin to act... This also put my ex off, as within ten minutes of him appearing at my lounge window.. a squad car would drive slowly by...

     

    Do not make contact directly with him, and although i know it's horrible and difficult to ignore - do not let what he's doing interrupt your happiness. He will get bored.

     

    Go to the CAB, they can help you too.

     

    Hugs xx

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    A hug from The Little Monkey (who knew that would ever happen :wub: ) A hug, full stop..come to think of it :)

     

    Doggie getting so blissed out with a head scratch she nearly falls over..

     

    Sunshine through the windows..

     

    First sip of tea in the morning..

     

    Putting on silly socks.. :D

     

    Snuggling on the sofa, with a good book..

     

    Listening to the opening notes of a favourite tune.. *goosebumps*..

     

    Reading all these lovely posts......

     

     

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