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    i have always been a bit of a tomboy

     

    hate getting 'dressed up' in skirts or anything, don't wear make up

     

    apparantly when i was 2 all i wanted for christmas was a motorbike and a crash helmet so mum got me a wee pedal one, i think i wanted a 'real' one!

     

    i did get to go on a real one from about the age of 3 tho 'off road one' along with my dad,

     

    rode on my own at about 5 or 6

     

    loved tree swings and mud

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    thanx Viper

     

    I normally do tell people that i am v shy

     

    these days the only ppl i meet are from online, not really an ideal situation. ok have only met 5 people in person in the past 3 years or so. tho have been online since year 2000.

     

    i do 'chat' with them online for months sometimes even years b4 i meet them. and seem to get on well, its online i normally talk about cr*p these days as don't really have social interaction. just spend a lot of my time on the computer.

     

    and before i meet with them i tell them on several occasoins that i am very shy and not to be offended if i don't say much.

     

    and still once they meet me in person they are not interested anymore.

     

    they go as far as ignoring me copletly till they get fed up with me trying to make contact via text message or msn/yahoo that they tell me that yes they are ignoring me. hmmm they say that they did not expect me to be that shy, but i always TELL them that i am, so why agree to meet me when they are not prepared to give me time to get to know them in person and for them to get to know me?

     

    so not sure what steps to take now, as anyone i meet from here ends up not liking me, yet the friends online are the only friends i have, so if i chance meeting anyone else they may end up not likeing me either. and i would like to have a 'real' friend rather than just an 'online' one.

     

     

     

    sorry going on a bit too much again aint i?

     

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    thank you Nellie

     

    >:D<<'>

     

     

     

    i said something really think the other day, was getting ready to go to a wedding and mum said

     

    "I have to wear gold"

     

    so i said "Oh, do i need to take my silver off and wear gold then?"

    without even thinking!

     

    then she said 'No, don't be daft, I have gold thru my outfit!"

     

    ahhh how thick am I LOL why would i have to wear gold? i dunno! lol

     

     

     

    thanx everyone for the lovely welcome nice to meet you all

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    Thanx

     

    it does bother me that i am a loner

     

    yes i like my own space, but i would also like to have the company of others

     

    i'd like to be able to socialize 'normally' but i can't

     

    ppl say that it i up to me to get out and make friends and socialize, but it aint as simple as that is it? not when i feel so anxious and awkward within social situations?

     

    is it strange that i want to be sociable even tho i feel that way when i am amoungst ppl and try to be sociable? ?

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    their is not really much that i do

     

    i like ski-ing but do not get to do that very often, usually only once a year

     

    also like cycling which is something i can do on my own, and walking

     

    so anything i like its something that can be done on my own really.

     

    their aren't really any tv programmes that i like

     

    their are a few films i like and can watch them again and again, but not in an obsessive way. like i don't watch the same thing every day.

     

    i have always been a loner really, not because i want to be, it just how i am because i am not good socially when trying to talk to people.

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    thank you all for the replies!

     

    I am not really obsessed with anything in particular, and from reading posts on here that is one of the aspie traits? so maybe i do not have AS after all

     

    maybe i am just weird?

     

    I do spend a LOT of time online, but i think the reason fot that is because i have nothing else to do, and its a way of me having someone to 'talk' to even tho i am only typing on a screen.

     

    I do have a job tho tend to get up go to work, come home and go online.

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