bjkmummy
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my son had hearing problems - we went private last year and he had grommits in - hearing is now perfect but the asd problem got worse so hence why we are goung down the dx path at the moment. i feel that a lot of his problems were put down to his hearing - oncehearing sorted out everyone became aware that this was just masking something else
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hi, thanks for all of your replys - i have pm sonia
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hi, my husband is in the raf. we moved house 3 months ago as we bought our own house. husband got a new job at a local raf base so looked like we were sorted. ben who i think has aspergers started at a new school who within days realised there was a problem. i took him straight ot the docs ( an ew one cos we moved) and he immeadiately referred him even though for the past 2 years i had been fighting for this!! he sees cahms on wednesday next week so hopefully some answers then. he has all the classic signs of aspergers, plus his teacher and senco believe he has it and he now has an iep at school. he is already being bullied at school
ANYWAY - i am so unhappy where we live. i know noone in the area. I have tried desperately to make friends with people at bens school, i have 2 year old twins and have been to numerous mums and tots but 3 months in - i know noone. dh works long hours and i work from home so have no human contact plus with 2 year old twins and ben life is hard
dh has to go away this summer for 4 months - god knows how i will cope. we have had it deferred once already so we cant put it off any longer
today i went over to the base wher ehe works and took the twins to a mums and tots and i finally felt at home!!! people welcomed me. there is so much support - mums and tots each day, fantastic nurseries and a really good school with small classes. i could rent our house out and move into married quarters on the base wher ei would get all the support that i require but telling dh i want to move is going to be a battle plus can i tear ben away again to start a new school. he started reception last sept at a school at dh last base then we moved here in dec so started school in jan and to move again.........
but im sooooo unhappy and this must be affecting him. i feel better to move now before we really go down the path of asperegers. i have checked and the support for ben in rutland where we would move to is so much better than where we are now
so confused - really dont know what to do for the best - do i put ben first - he has made no friends at this school - or myself?????????????????????
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HI,
On another site i use they put a link to a t4esco site where you can register your signature in a campaign for tescos to do something about child parking ie people with no children parking there. i will find the link and add it later so maybe everyone on here could sign it too!!!!!!!
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hi, my son who is 4 is showing all the signs of aspergers. for the past 2 years been fobbed off with the excuse that he doesnt like change.
he moved schools in dec and within days his teacher noticed there were problems with him. took him to my new doctor who instantly referred him.
now have an appointment in 2 weeks time to the child and mental health dept at the local hospital. there will be a doctor there and another person - what exactly does this appointment entail??? im assuming i take ben with me plus dh is coming as well. how doe sthis appointment fit in with the progress of a diaganosis - or are we a long way away from this????
also concerned that my nearly 3 year old son is now showing signs of apergers - hes really freaking out now if you touch his hair!!!!!!
many thanks in advance fo r your help - this is my first post!!!!!!!
NEW - school thinks son ( nearly 5) might have AS
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my son is seeing cahms this week (weds) - hes nearly 5 so ill let you know. form seeing the go and seeing cahms has taken 2 months