frogslegs Report post Posted May 25, 2011 I have not been on the forum for 18 months and a lot has happened since. My son (aged 12 3/4) has transferred successfully to secondary (main stream 4 hours of weekly support). We have chosen to move him away from the town where we live and he goes to a secondary located 10 miles away. The advantage is that if he has a bust up with someone, it stays at school whereas until last year, problems at school ended up in our street with messages put through our door and bullies coming here to call him names over the garden fence. So I think this is the best decision ever. We are now moving very very rapidly towards adolescence and the problems are big and getting bigger. I am getting worried that I am nagging him all the time and our relationship is getting damaged. So any tips to keep smooth are welcome. Glad to be back. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites