Just a quickish intro from me. My middle-aged brother was diagnosed with mild Asperger's 3 years ago. Frustratingly, he shows no interest in his condition, nor do our parents, who I think would benefit from continuing support as his carers.
I live miles away and had to single-handedly broach the issue of AS and walk on eggshells for 11 years as I got my very reticent parents to accept the need for a diagnosis. I'm feeling worn out and annoyed that everything falls on me to move things forward. It's particularly frustrating to know that so many parents are champing at the bit to get support/diagnosis for their children, whilst mine have never really been motivated. When I have mentioned this to other parents, they are often stunned. I think it's fair to say that there are other issues going on the family, but that's another story.
My brother is OK, but his future is uncertain as my parents are now in their seventies. If anyone would like know about my brother and how he copes, in middle age, I will be happy to oblige. I'm hoping I might get some ideas about getting help for my family - even if they do all have their heads buried in the sand!
Thank you.
