marc1984

thanks,do know of HARC thanks anyway

yes i can totally relate to what ur saying, yes i could write a book lol. thats my biggest fear with my second son him paying bills keeping a roof over his head(the list is endless) where do i start each week brings a new drama.Yes and it good to hear about other people so you dont realise that you are not the only family like this

My oldest son i always knew he wasnt like other children but because he wasnt alot of trouble when he was younger i didnt give him as much attention as my second son who was the child from hell from the age of 18months.And my third child was also put to the side a bit as the middle child needed i thought at the time more of my time. I could write a book on it lol.There has been so much grief and heart ache in our family life and i hope it would get easier but life is getting harder for them as they are now adults and having to cope in the real world if you know what im trying to say

hi im new as well,we also live in hertfordshire.im not sure if there is any? if you fine one can you let know me know i think i could do with some form of support myself as at times things can be very difficult and having other people that understand would be really good. Seems to be alot around for children but not adults(but maybe im wrong)

I know the feeling some months are terrible and some times i think its harder to cope with now they are getting older. But its a good job they have us because i dont know what my kids would do with out my help most of the time

thanks for the replys, just didnt know if it was the norm to have all their childrens on the spectrum. My children are 25,23 and 20 . Do people think the conditions get worse the older you get because this is what we are experiencing

has anyone got more than 1 child with these conditions

hi im new member 2 sons with aspergers and other problems there ages 23 and 25,so any advice would be greatful,also daughter that has alot of traits of aspergers