Thanks for the reply.
I found this alla week ago - thanks to my wife and her efforts.
Although I often used to say to mysef in a group situation "I am not like any you" I never ever imagined this wa s why.
It makes sense now, but it is scary to think I will still ame the same social mistakes in the future too
I just do not know what to do next - we see our GP Friday - so maybe the first step is this?