Well I was not self diagnosed.
In family therapy in 1990 my father asked if I had been more strictly brought up whether I would have turned out better.
The family therapist said it had nothing to do with up bringing and explained that I had Asperger Syndrome.
I was not in the room and she explained it to my Parents as it was a terrible secret.
My Father was a great believer in discipline and said that they over did the cane before the war but they should not have abollished the cane completely.
He even got caned for talking after lights out at boarding school in the 1930s.
I will never forget this conversation as he died shortly after that meeting aged eighty-five in 2006.
Learning that I had Asperger Syndrome meant he stopped blaming my Mother for the way I turned out.
My Doctor told me in 09 that the only record about Autism on me was the Psychiatrist in 1976 who visited us aged nineteen saying that I had mild Autism which is the equivalent of Asperger today and he did not have records about when I was nine.
When I was nine in 1966 a Psychiatrist wanted to send me tc a special school for Autistic children I am pleased that I did not go there. That Psychiatrist did not explain why he thought I was Autistic.
I was not happy at the private schools but I liked the Primiary School I was at from nine till eleven.
More replies please on the brain scan.
David Shamash.