Hi People,
This is my first time writing on this site but me and my family desperatly need some assistance.
Basically my Mum isnt really good with computers and I offered to come online to see if we could get any help!
I am 20 years old, my brother is now 11! My mum has suspected he has Autism/Asperges since he was around 3years old but it has just been so difficult to try and get some help!
He has just recently been passed to a Dr. Singh (i think thats his name) who has told kai he thinks he has autism but needs to do a proper dianosis for him as my family is starting to find it difficult to cope!
We all love my brother very much, and do our best to help him, but now he has just started high school he is finding it extreamly difficult to cope with the amount of work and as he has not formally been diagnosed his teachers arent exactly doing much to help except tell him he is stupid which we are certain he is not!!
Anyway, Kai (my brother) is started to get very angry, with himself and the rest of the family!
Until he has been diagnosed and finnaly gets the help he needs and so greatly deserves! We are just asking for any help and advice anybody can offer for ways to deal with this kind of stress, not just for Kai but also for my mum, she feels so bad for my brother that she cant give him the help he needs, but how can she when she doesnt know what is going through his mind or even how to help him get some of his thoughts out of his mind. He doesnt even know how to get his thoughts out of his mind! We really think he would benefit from meeting people with asperges/asd but we dont know anywhere to meet people to talk about our concerns. We are genuinely worried now, he is really beginning to have bad thoughts about himself that nobody his age should be thinking!
So, I am sorry to ramble on... im sure most of this doesnt even make sense.
Thank you, and I hope someone, somewhere has some advice to help us get through this tough time!
Please Help
Jade xx
