Thanks peeps,
I have checked out Wrong Planet and on first impressions it looks quite a good resource. I 'll get my girl to have a go with it and see what happens. And yeah, I am fully up to speed with the dangers of the 'net, we have had a couple of issues with MSN recently although after a few emabarrasing confrontations, both my kids seem to be a bit more responsible now!
I'll let this forum know how we get on. Oh, and if anyone wants to try a P2P thingy with us, just send a PM and I can get my daughter to respond.
Elmwood