Thank you for the links the person I am struggling to communicate with is actually my husband (though, lol his behaviour can be much more like spoilt teenager at times). I guess I need adults with Aspergers supprot groups.
I am new to this - I really need help with talking to other people who live with and adult with Aspergers. I do and recent behaviour is making the realtionship very difficult. I am worried he is ill and depressed this is making me depressed and unhappy. If anyone can help me or suggest somewhere I can get help it would be great relief.