Well he's always struggles but was at a small primary school and we sort of managed. Transition into a much bigger school has been the trigger that has exacerbated what we coped with before to a point where he's not really coping. The school are being sympathetic but he sort of keeps it together at school so I think this is me being a bit hysterical and it will all pass as he settles down. I know that the behaviour is worse because of transition but is still fundamentally the same as it has always been. As I said I am seeking a diagnosis - I'm making progress but just getting him to school in the morning is a massive problem and he's missed a couple of days. Sadly I can see this getting to be a lot more but I can hardly pick him up and put him in the car at his age! thanks for the support though :-)
