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Clare63

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  1. :( No wonder you are so angry, what an awful experience for you all. I would certainly lodge a complaint against this woman, how dare she intimidate your children and they are so young, I hope it does not put them off going to the gym/pool again.

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    Clare x


  2. I may be missing something here, but I am sure you said you guys hardly make any noise anyway, so where is your neighbour evidence surely they would have to supply evidence to support their claim and why should you have explain about your son , they should consider themselves lucky you have not got half a dozen kids, have parties every weekend, play loud music late into the night, have a barking dog and wear stilleto's (that's you not the dog ! ) Sorry about that but your neigbours have made me cross. Think Caroline's suggestion of a leaflet or letter might prove helpful. maybe your neighbours want you out because they have friends/family they want moved in ???

    Clare x


  3. Hev, it must be so hard to manage his behaviour when you have a little 3 yr old, I apprecaite that you can't just drop everything to focus on Steve. Has he got a punch bag or trampoline to exert his energies on ? Sorry don't have any advice but my thoughts are with you.

    Clare x >:D<<'> >:D<<'> >:D<<'>


  4. My lad often complains of tummy ache at all sorts of times, one of his rituals is do a bowel movement before he leaves the house whether he seems to want to go or not. So will sit and strain I think the tummy ache perhaps relates to pulling muscles. Went to see GP who is now treating him for IBS due to his anxiety, he said straining would not give him tummy ache ????

     

    Clare x


  5. Oh Mel, I am so sorry you are feeling so down and can empathise with your "self -induced isolation" sometimes I keep the curtains closed and refuse to answer the phone, even if its a friend just ringing for a chat and to see how we are doing. I just get so fed up about talking about our life to people who don't really understand, who are so full of bright ideas etc etc This forum has become so special to me I feel I am getting to know the members and as BP said share things I would not with close family. You have always been so kind and supportive to me.

     

    My saviour is my little dog, she asks for nothing but a couple of walks a day which gets me out in the fresh air I have also meet a small band of lovely people up the fields who do not judge me and with whom I can be myself.

     

    I am still waiting for counselling, perhaps that something you would consider, I am hoping it will help me to look at life with fresh eyes.

     

    Perhaps we could organise a "meet" say middle/south england, I would certainly go !

     

    If you ever fancy a chat, you are more than welcome to phone me or I'll call you, just send me a PM for my number.

     

    Take care and hopefully things will improve soon.

     

    Clare x

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  6. It certainly does not seem fair that just your child has been punished when he was so clearly egged on by the girls in the playground. I am afraid I don't have any advice for you at the moment, but would be very interested to find out what other think about "the time of year affecting people with ASD" for the past 3 years my son has gone down dramatically from December to March and then gradually improves again I wondered whether it was linked to S.A.D. ?

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