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it dont seem possible eh baddad
time goes really quick,things so much better than they have been,i think ive learned to ignore a lot and not get so stressed -
hello,my son is 16 with aspergers,he clashes with his stepfather a lot who has been with us since steven was 3,it is all very hard to deal with and to be honest i have no answers but just to let you know you not alone,this forum has helped me so much so keep posting as it got me through some very dark days and i made some lovely friends
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hello everyone!!!hope everyone ok,all ok in hevs world
steve 17 next month and katie 7 steves been in mainstream college for a year and done fantastic not sure what he wants to do in september but we looking at options now.things at home improved loads,we not the brady bunch by any means but we not fighting like the dingles any more
nicks still lovely and im still quiet and shy
gonna have look through posts now xx
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happy anniversary!!!!!!!!!!
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i do not consider stevens aspergers to be a gift at all,i have found his condition extremely hard to deal with over the years,goes without saying i love him but the aspergers he has in my opinion is not a gift
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thanks bid,i will be there
ive sort of got over my facebook addiction so will be on here more now 
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well he seems to be enjoying it
he makes his own way there on the bus,its about half hour away and considering he used to travel to and from southampton every weekend by train on his own he has no worries saying that tho,he fell asleep on the bus tonight and missed his stop!!hes not used to these early mornings,its 3 days a week so can still have a few lie ins
anyway so far so good,this mothering lark is a worry tho,i been on tenderhooks for 2 days!!
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I can relate to the flat/dull feeling, and I'm always dropping off to sleep in the middle of the day, too. Then I get frustrated because I haven't done anything. Things are all over the place at the moment though, need to find some way to keep calm.oh my god im tired constantly and i just saw this and thought could it be due to the cilatropram,im constantly tired and could sleep all day!!i am overweight tho so it could be that as well,i been on cilatropram for about 9 years,40 mg
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saw him on the bus and i feel all weird now!!hes doing 2 days this week then in future 3 days,hes doing a life skills course for a year then choosing what he wants to do next year
im nervous
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Kathryn and I met on the forum and it turned out we live near each other, so we know each other well now. I met Mumble and Tally a couple of years ago at a big Forum Meet, but didn't really get a chance to talk to them properly, and I met Jaded and Dana for the first time today.We thought it might be nice to do another mini-meet when the shops are all Christmassy
Bid
oh and you met me and you have forgotten to mention that!!!!!!!!
im going to the christmassy meet defo be afraid!! -
my washing machine and hoover broke in the same week
i was waiting for the 3rd thing to go wrong but thankfully it didnt!!! -
is doing a foundation course 3 days a week at our local college then after a year can do the course of his choice
im really hopeful it will work and hes pleased :clap:its a sort of life skills course with help for his difficulties in a mainstream college -
hello david!1nice to see you on here again!! xx
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get her in the corner when no ones around and smack her straight in the mouth
then again you want to keep your job so just say oh by the way my sons disabled and like someone said watch her squirm,if she dont squirm do the smack in the mouth bit!!!! 
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we did our first holiday away from steve 2 years ago and although i felt guilty,really guilty actually i also felt katie deserved a holiday too,our holidays in the past have been horrendous,steve nearly got arrested in spain for kicking doors,security called at butlins!!!you name it,we have tried every type of holiday going,ive come to realise that steve much prefers days out just me and him than holidays,you deserve a break too so dont feel guilty,hard i know,im the queen of guilt
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steven was diagnosed at about 10 with aspergers,i knew something wasent right for long time but hard getting a dx
my relationship with nick has really suffered but saying that it has also made us really strong because i know we can cope with everything life throws at us
the things i have missed most are family holidays and days out,i still get a bit envious when i see families out together cos we cant go out as a family cos its too horrendous!saying that though its made me and katie extremely close as shes had so much time with me on our own
def made me a stronger person,got to fight for everything and its made me more confident,i was very timid before i had steve(shut up bighead!!)but i liker the new version of me cos i have more of a laugh now.
i think its made me more tolerant of other people,before i was one of the ones who thought children playing up in the shops were naughty and there mums couldnt control them,now i know theres more to it than that and things are not what they seem sometimes
but the very best positive about having steven is getting to know baddad
cos if steve didnt have aspergers i wouldnt have been on this forum and met the most fantastic,good looking man in the universe 
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i went to the concert for diana and take that were the last act to be on,i was looking foward to that then my mum decided to have a funny turn and we had to be escorted out by first aiders
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Hi Hev, nice to see you.Sorry to hear about Nicks mum.
The best of luck to Steve in September. He must be pretty grown up by now.
Love
Nellie
<'>hello nellie,yeah hes 16 in august
reckons im getting him a motorbike for his birthday he can dream tho!things on even keel now,never gonna be the brady bunch,more like the dingles but we are happy most of the time! xxx -
i think its sad hes died but i cannot grieve for someone i dont know,feel sorry for his family,my fave song of his is you are not alone but it was a remix version i liked,very talented man
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oh bless him
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you got to do whats best for you and your son,took me years to stop trying to please people,they havent got a clue but then really i spose why should they,i never even heard of aspergers till i had steve ,stick to your guns,you know whats best xxxx
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i love the word vile!!!i use it a lot,especially to describe my life at times
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hope you all doing ok,my life still the same
steve left school today and is starting a foundation course at our local college in september hopefully hopefully it will all work out 
nicks mum died on wed and hes devastated to say the least but hopefully he will be ok
im still the same,ive tried to change but i cant
hello everyone!!!!
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ive been on facebook kathryn
hello tally 
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