LisaKaz75 Report post Posted August 27, 2010 Silly question! but its really bothering me I have been a stay at home mum for 3 years, as the company I worked for closed down when I was pregnant. Had been there for some time, so meant I got a good pay out, meaning could have time off with my son Then decided to have some more time to try IVF again (not successful) and then started realising there were issues with my son He is only 3. At the moment he is classed as having developmental delay. He has speech therapy, attends an assessment centre 1 afternoon a week, cranial osteopathy every month, and is starting a main stream nursery initially 1 morning a week to be built up to 15 hours in Jan. We are putting in a bid for the funding (sorry can not remember the official name) for one to one support for him. Its been explained that this will mean regular meetings with nursery, his centre worker etc.. So theres the dilemma. Need to find a job!! Market not great and many people for the same job. I need flexibilty for the many appointments he has. I am concerned if I am open about this will ruin my chances of getting work. At the same time, if I dont mention it its going to look appalling quite quickly as I ask for more and more time Any suggestions anyone?? LisaKaz Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites