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peaches

After School, what then?

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peaches   

My grandson got a diagnosis of High Functioning Autism, ADHD, Attachment Disorder and Developmental Coordination Disorder when he was 6.  From age 8 he has taken methylphenidate for ADHD.  He is doing well at school and is considered a natural mathematician.  He doesnt see anyone about his autism but has a very good support assistant/key worker in school.  He is now 15 and I am in fear for his future.  School think he will definitely secure a university place in maths or science.  How does a young person go to university when his living skills are so poorly developed

Examples:

I have to pour his drinks from bottles or he spills them.

I have to get him up in a morning and select his clothes otherwise he wouldnt get up, and would make crazy choices like a pair of shorts at Christmas etc.

He cannot prepare meals, I show him how to do parts of tasks and he can just about make toast and cheese and crackers.

He is vulnerable and gullible when it comes to dealing with people and his relationships have to be supervised.

OK so if he decides he doesnt want university, and he stays here with me everyday playing computer games, what about when I die?  His mother was unable to bring him up because she couldnt priorities and neglected him and herself.

What support is available for young people like this?

 

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katzmum   

Hello Peaches,

Your grandson should be undergoing a transition now to his post-16 placement.  Does he have an Education, Health and Care Plan?  Has a post 16 target been identified?   Is there a contingency plan?  Have any visits to his target venue been arranged?    If he has an EHCP, has consultation taken place with his next venue (even if this is Sixth Form in his current school)?

 

You are absolutely correct, professionals cannot simply assume he will transition to his next placement with no problems.  Furthermore, what assistance are you getting?  What independent living skills training is your g/s receiving?  Where are specialist ASC services or social care?

 

 

I am sorry, I only have questions.  My own experience is not good.  Post-16 was disastrous for both my sons, but your sons' transition should be well under way by now.  It is not all about academic performance as you know so well.

 

 

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