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making & keeping friends

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I have never been able to keep in touch with people - I used to put it down to a very mobile life as a child/teenager. However, my two brothers (obviously) had a very similar upbringing and they seem to have no problems here - they both have friends that they have hadd since school days (we're all in our 50's now).

 

I didn't have any real friends at school - I was always a bit of an outsider.

 

These days I meet people, mostly at work, and get on well with them (as far as I can tell). But lose touch as soon as one or other moves on. I used to think that it was because I didn't keep in touch, but I realise that it is a two-way thing, no-one keeps in touch with me either.... maybe the odd Christmas card but nothing more.

 

In general, it's not a significant issue as I am a pretty self-contained person and happy with my own company. However, having recently suspected that I have a degree of AS, I wonder if that could be a contribuutary factor?

 

Do other people with AS have problems making and keeping real friends??

 

I'd be interested to hear - and to know if anything can be done about it.

 

Peter

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Hi Peter

sometimes people with as are caught up in their own world pursuing their obsessions and interests and consequeuently forget to initiate contact.I can be a bit caught up in my own world sometimes. .

 

Anyway this is just my observations.I would be interested to hear other people's experiences.

 

Peter. I am not saying you are like this but just explaining

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