stressed out mum Report post Posted January 12, 2006 My son was late out from school tonight and wouldn't tell me why. It has taken me all evening but eventually he did answer yes or no but nothing else to my questions. From what I can make out an older boy pushed in the dinner queue and then turned and punched my son in the face. My son then ran off to the first aider and she wrote a report. Because my son does not know who the boy was (and of course no-one saw anything) he had to go to the office and look at photo's to identify him. As it was he only looked at half of the photo's so now tomorrow he says that he has to look at the rest. Not sure what to do now I am so worried Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rainbow queen Report post Posted January 12, 2006 oh thats awfull. i ask my 4 year old everyday if anyones been nasty to him at school as he would never just tell me so i go through a load of questions with him to every night. he dont ever tell much about what goes on im going to ask for that book what i saw on another post so they can write stuff in and i can. i did get out of him that a certain girl keeps pushing him-so i wrote a short note to teacher saying about it-they said they keep an eye out. these things only take a minute and of course they r not watched every min--it makes me worry to i hope your son sees the pic of who did it, hope hes ok? <'> Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stressed out mum Report post Posted January 12, 2006 Thank you rainbow queen My son is 12 so the boys there are nearly as big as me The thing is I think that at their age it would be classed as assault Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
rainbow queen Report post Posted January 12, 2006 yes i would say its assult then if there 12 has no one said at the school about how serious it is? is he badley hurt or got bruises if so id take a picture of him just in case for evidence Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
phasmid Report post Posted January 13, 2006 But not on a digital camera as they can be 'manipulated' and cannot be used as evidence. Dr's report can though! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
UltraMum Report post Posted January 13, 2006 I think I would go into school to ask whether they have recorded the incident and ask what they plan to do about the assault your son has suffered, presuming he can identify the culprit. I'm sure there must have been witnesses to the incident. How hard have they tried to find them? But not on a digital camera as they can be 'manipulated' and cannot be used as evidence Wow - Phas - never thought of that! You learn something new every day! Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
stressed out mum Report post Posted January 13, 2006 Thanks Everyone No marks have been left but he does have a very sore jaw Have left a message for his Head of House to phone me and apparently no-one saw what happened I managed to get him to go to school this morning cos I said you can't let the B*****ds win. And yes you can hit him back harder if it happens again!!! I think he will have a long day looking at photo's though. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Jill Report post Posted January 13, 2006 <'> <'> That's horrible. I hate bullies. Hope they track down who did it and deal with it properly Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
