Perry Chie

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Sorry Karen A Yes Im sure the therapist is just a GP standard issue, as was refered as GP thought I was depressed, I have voiced my concerns to GP but i think pretty clueless would cover anything from that dept. Many thanks Perry chie

I can only hope for your sake that you dont resemble me as i am about as unatractive as you can get. Sorry you had such a bad day as it goes mine was one of the worst i have ever had too, and have cried pretty much ever since, have found some solace in a tin of Roses meant for xmas and that is not what i need, but you get to the point when you really dont give a s**t. I think if you have an asd then having a child with one is just about as much as you can take. Take care and thanks for your replies. Perry chie

Thanks, now i dont feel quite so silly! No I havent got a DX and dont know if I want one, what really annoys me is that people say Im fine nothing wrong, but they dont know how I feel and it is strange how I only know because of DS and his dx, there are a few more in the family who are further along the spectrum than I think I am but they havent a clue, but they make their families lives very hard. Thanks for your reply. Perry chie

Found these that go up to 6 years I suppose that is the size he has grown out of. http://www.gro-group.co.uk/grobag/sizes-to...d-what-to-wear/ Perry chie

This is what I should have told the careers woman at school, "I want to be a Chocolate Archaeologist", shall just have to pursue it alone. Perry chie

Hi, just thought I would add my bit! I so want to be organised and have everything perfect but i just cant do it, I am living in a diy not finished disaster, so even with a list and a lot of effort the finish is never how i want it it is demoralising and causes so much anxiety, that i have kind of given up. I have sensitive hearing and am driven to the point of punching any one chewing and swallowing, wooley material rubbing together (like socks AHHHHHHHH) and polystyrene squeaking, if I couldnt escape from it I would go crazy. After talking to someone I analize what as said and am often angry that I said something that offended them I dont know if it did really but am sure I have said the wrong thing and I dwell on it for a long time sometimes even days, if i dont hear from them I am sure they are angry, then when I do see them again I always end up apologising and they cant even remember what Im talking about and I feel even stupider People seem to take every thing I say and twist it and dont get what Im trying to say at all, then I feel so jumbled that I cant explain as I am trying to work out what the hell went wrong Poor english really drives me nuts and I have a few times corrected people I hardly know I just cant stop myself, how can they not hear that they are saying it wrong. I always choose to sit where I can see everyone but i avoid looking at them and I feel really bl**dy annoyed if someone sits next to me, esp when there are other places to sit, actually it even annoys me when people park their cars next to mine if there are other places. When i walk down the road I look at the floor and avoid looking at anyone, i feel that I am avoiding any sort of confrontation. I am so sensitive and cry a lot and over nothing, I see danger everywhere and see bad things that could happen to my loved ones and then it turns into a story of how awful it could be if it were for real. I recently saw a therapist, due to crying when i saw the gp and he said he couldnt see any autistic type stuff in me then he asked what was the difference between autism and aspergers! When I do talk to someone like the therapist all i can think is have I looked at you for too long should I look away now, will he think Im strange staring at the ceiling/floor/window while Im talking. Theres prob a million more things I could tell you but, you prob fallen asleep by now! Perry chie

Thanks for your replies, I can see your point Baddad, and your suggestion sounds very sensible, life would be so much easier if DS was just dairy free, now milk that def. affected him for the better when it was removed from his diet at 2.5 . Knowing how he is he will prob refuse to ever eat ordinary bread and I will have to carry on baking the stuff he is used to! Im sure i read about the body switching from casein to gluten in this book........... http://www.amazon.com/Diet-Intervention-Au...5338&sr=1-4 Baddad is your son just dairy free? Did you have the Sunderland testdone for him, and what were the results? You dont have to answer these nosey questions and can tell me to go away if you like! Many thanks Perry chie Edited to try and make sense of it!

My son has been GF/CF for over 3 years now, the results from Sunderland only showed a problem with dairy, not gluten . He has recently eaten a few things with gluten and shown no reaction, please tell me should i keep up the GF or not, only I read that the body will change to gluten peptides if the casein ones are withheld, I would love to hear your views whatever they are! Many thanks........ Perry chie

Hello Baddad, long time no see! Im quite pleased GP said no in a way as I would prob be relying on made breads and the ones I have bought (rarely) have had a very bad effect on DS, I know what goes in his bread and there is no flour improvers or other yuckies and the bread I make is edible, esp when its just done yum! Perhaps I will mention it again, can you get flour with the scripts? perry chie

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flipper you are one of the lucky ones my GP said GF scipts are for patients dx with cealiacs only and was very snooty with me, I hope you find the diet works well, Im sure it has for my DS we have been doing it for nearly three and a half years now and are totally used to it. All the best, perry chie

Back after a long break and this is my first post, they do say some funny things! In a supermarket the other day and our cashier did our stuff and told people behind me he was closed, he was in a big hurry and leapt up my DS said in a loud voice "wheres he going?" I said to have his lunch and DS said in a very loud voice "well I think he needs the toilet" very matter of fact and the poor boy looked so embarressed, anouther time in the bank there was a man clad in red M/C leathers and DS said, "is that a power ranger" everyone laughed but the man! perry chie

Hi yes my son is very sensitive to sound, hoovers,hair dryers, food mixers even shavers and I also have sensitive hearing I remember going to that millenium dome and the music was so loud I had to put my hands over my ears when I looked around no-one else seemed bothered, (except my older son who I was embarrasing apparently) joking aside it really hurts. There is a condition called Hypercussus which causes sound sensitivity Perry

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