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Just kicked my son out for lieing, stealing, anyone care to comment.He seems happy where he is now. Should I stop crying everyday now, afterall the choice hes made of hardship is his own.

nobby nobbs= im also not very computer literate so please bear with me

thank you for your reply caroline unfortunately my son will always go in head first and its not been a problem so much when he was a child but now as an adult it has more potential serious consequences for him and my family.. nothing happens slowly with him, as much as i know hes a vulnerable person my family is being exposed too. and i get tired and stressed pushing folks buttons, trying to stay ahead, and well im tired now, was disappointed when i first joined the forum, really thought i might get some insight into my sons autism. i have been in denial a year or so. but well i bang so night and thanks again

smiley thank you so much. my son starts to see a psychologist in may and i hope they will help him to understand this and other aspects of his aspergers. i think like you my son would give his last rolo but its not just about having friends its having a sharing, giving, generous caring heart and thats a lovely quality and i think you and my son have that

= nobby nobbs they drink and smoke together. he met them in town where they hang out, the police move them on when the group gets too large. he has 1 good friend and many friends that hes gathered through his interests ie sport, dance, music. hes always had obsessions and the way i see it these are his latest obsessions. i joined this forum because i worry for him and my family, and by the way i feed these friends, wash their clothes and welcome them as i would like to think that if my son was in their position they would do the same.

@NobbyNobbs: I joined this forum for help with my son and not an attack on the unfortunate people of society. The people I have mentioned are using my son - they have recently stolen from him but I did not mean to make a sweeping generalisation. I apologise for the offence. Thank you Kathryn for your advice.

I'm aware of the need for boundaries, rules and limitations but past attempts have been disastrous - he was extremely ante, aggressive and non-compliant. His behaviour was quite intimidating and frightening, and I would like to avoid similar opportunities for confrontation.

Thank you for your reply, however I am concerned that by taking this action he may leave and not return, and endanger himself.

hello my name is Denise, I have a son Philip aged 17 who was diagnosed a year ago with aspergers. My son has always brought children home, played with them and given them snacks. He still brings people home whom he considers to be his friends. Unfortunately the people he brings now are young men who have been either kicked out or put in care. Many of them have criminal records. How can i explain to him that these people are not his friends and that they are only using him? He has gotten very upset/ angry when i have questioned his choice of friends. His apergers is now endangering our home and the family. Can anyone help me?