Hi Lilypad
Have you tried going back to your GP, just let them know how bad things can be & maybe he can get you through to see someone. We were lucky as we had our son diagnosed just before his 3rd birthday - but have to admit I had to badger my HV for ages, & had to wait a good 12 mths before we got an appointment. It's still been a fight from there on though, I wish I could tell you it'll get easier!
Best Wishes
Wendy
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