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  2. Posted · Report reply

    Oh honey, men can be annoying!!!!

    I cant say what I would get to say to him on here, because they would

    fill it up with ######################!!!!

     

    I hope it sorts itself out soon, and you are able to live a free and happy life x

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    I have just got off the phone, it seems like I have been on it all day!

     

    A lady called Pam from the PWP phoned today, and she has taken A LOT off my mind,

    and I am realizing I'm not some mental mum with an attitude........ I CARE.

     

    She has given me loads of advise, and is sending me out some literature on different

    issues myself and DS are having at the moment. She is also ringing me back tomorrow with some

    other info I brought up, and told me together we will make this all work. :thumbs:

     

    She has given me hope that me, and me alone can put DS forward for an assessment,

    and that no matter what happens with the school, I will be backed up.

    She has given me hope that I can see a light at the end, even though its as big as a needle

    tip. :notworthy:

     

     

    I then got a call from the SENCO,

    she rang to discuss how they could move forward with DS,

    and the bullying he received last week. (She wasn't able to discuss the outcomes,

    as this is now being dealt with by the Head of year.) She did say that DS, was still not

    approaching people to discuss issues he may have during school time. So I explained that

    DS has to build up a relationship with someone before he feels that he is able too talk.

    God its bad enough trying to get him to talk to me! But I manage! :tearful:

    She has also changed his timetable so he is attending sessions each day with

    the Behavioural teacher, on his social skills......... this one they need luck with!

     

    She did now explain that the behavioural teacher had seen DS at lunchtime, in a lesson,

    and one to one. So I am hoping that the report back will have more hope included.

    :pray:

    I have had to ask for a meeting of progress, even though last term I was told

    this would happen in the first two weeks of return.........

    Now booked for the 13th December, just before break up! :whistle:

     

    :wub:So for now, I still focus all my energy on my son,

    there is not an hour go by when he is at school that I don't wonder

    if he is ok.

    After all children are a part of our soul,

    after all we bring life into life :wub:

  10. Posted · Edited by farfalla · Report reply

    I just done mine from photobucket to see how....

     

    **In Photobucket**

     

    First upload pic...... you will need to reg(its easy, I did it)

     

    Then click on pic

     

    Resize (it will say avatar beside it)

     

    then click on view album

     

    Right Click on IMG Code and it will say copied

     

    **Now goto asd forum**

     

    Goto My controls on here, and into avatar

     

    paste the link from photobucket

     

    ****delete which appears at the begining of the the link and the end

     

    update and you should have it :)

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    Wow thank you Annie

     

    I am so divvy :unsure: I didn't think to google bullying!

    I am on the page now......... so might be gone a while :rolleyes:

     

     

    >:D<<'> Farfella >:D<<'>

     

    There's some information Here about putting in a complaint regarding bullying.

     

    Out of interest, I would be curious to know if your DS is misreading situations like this, how exactly should he have read them :angry: .

     

    Hope you get some answers soon!

     

    Annie

    xx

  12. Posted · Edited by farfalla · Report reply

    Thank you all for the advice, I am finally (thanks to Clare for the info)

    phoning PWP today for advise on other matters.....

     

    and will ring ACE too,

    I wish sometimes on here you had a smiley for a BAD swear word!

    I'd be using it :whistle:

     

    OH i should add........ NO REPLY FROM SCHOOL

    even to say they have my email!!!!!!!!!!

  13. Posted · Report reply

    I just wanted to add........

     

    as much as jamie Bleeping oliver was such a star :unsure:

    for all he did............

     

    I curse him daily!

     

    My DS will eat school dinner on wednesday, (roast day)

    any other day he will have brunch, and a packed lunch.

     

    I had to speak to the school only last week,

    as he will only eat marmite sandies,

    anything will be left!

    He won't eat yoghurt, as they are messy!

    He takes a piece of fruit.......... and the little fruit comes home daily!

    So his lunch box has, sandies, crisp and a drink in, and he told to have

    brunch. Which up until last term offered sausage........

    but since have been banned. Surely they can get lean ones,

    or even use the hotdog style ones?

     

    Anyway, DS has a limited diet, and has tried some new things

    lately, but with no great yumyum thats tasty view........

    Keep on with the school, and speak to the senco

    she should be able to speak to the teachers, and get

    them to understand........ even if its a little!

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    I am so angry! :wallbash:

    And being made out that I am mental!

    Ds came home yesterday and told me about an incident at school......

    *while running to my next class, (insert bully's name) he pushed me over,

    and his friends told him to pin me down......

    I struggled and struggled until I was nearly free,

    he grabbed my bag, and threw it onto the grass. When I told the teacher, she said

    nothing*

     

    (this was all because DS was trying to get to his next class first)

     

     

    So what do I do, as the teachers are more IT literate, and not always available to take phone calls

    I email her, including the senco, and head of year.......and the co principal.

     

    I get a phonecall back within half hour, from tutor

    who *tells me, DS is misinterupting the situations, and he is thinking

    that general banter is bullying! :wallbash:

     

    WTF!

     

    Is this NOT bullying?

    Am I really that THICK that I don't know that DS

    does at times think its bullying, when it is banter..........

     

     

    isn't a physical attack.......bullying??

     

    DS got a C3 yesterday for an outbrust in a lesson.......

    this was after the attack,

    and he had tried to clam down, but said he couldn't,

    and is still without his time out cards!

     

    can I take this higher?

    can i demand a meeting to include the co principal?

    I am at my wits end with this school, and the way they are NOT

    helping DS........

     

    He has been SO withdrawn since starting secondary school,

    I thought he might get into after a while but he hasnt.

    At primary, they knew if something was wrong, due to him

    becoming quiet and withdrawn........ but in this one, there is NO clue,

    as he isn't the joker, he isn't being told to stop mucking around,

    he isn't HIM!

     

    Losing my mind :tearful:

     

    To add:

    C3 - is some new system put in place,

    apparently, you get 3 C3's, which are letters home to

    parents, explaining their behaviour........

    then the fourth time is a detention.... (which the school knows DS loves.......well its quiet isn't it)

  22. Posted · Report reply

    I asked DS senco last week about getting info, she said she wasnt sure and would find outfor me.

    The next day she rang me about something else, and told me all I needed to do was write in and copies of

    all his paperwork would be sent onto me within 48 hours, still have to do this.... but I think this is the

    way it should be done.

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