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i woke up to snow!!!!its still snowing now,one problem though,ive run out of nappies and i havent got a raincover!!i cant complain though cos i prayed for snow

i think ive done it!!

thanks phas,im applying first thing in morning!!

im in the south east,gravesend and i havent got any!!i keep hoping to wake up and see snow,bet it misses me out

how do i get the quote bit to work?i keep trying but no luck,remember im not good on computers,so as simply as poss please!!

hello suze,yes it was the same sis who took steve to the pub we are talking today but it hasent been mentioned,all she said was was that they had a lovely night boxing night!!im so glad she did cos i b##### didnt!!i just feel i get stressed enough as you all know without people being so ignorant and not caring about my feelings,maybe she hasent mentioned it cos she feels bad but i will not be inviting her to my house again,i know lifes too short and all that but im trying to be more assertive this year,ive noticed when im assertive people fall out with me!

thats meant to say who is lufty!!

i never came on for a few days and then i saw lufty in red writing at the top with all the other names,i thought lufty was a lucky mascot of the site,a rabbit?!i went to members profile but i couldnt find luftys first post,please tell me who lufty is as its been bugging me for days,im a very nosey person and i need to know!!

havent got a clue how to use spellcheck,could someone explain to me,i just know the very basics of computers so can you type very slowly so i understand,thanks!!

i like the idea of a chatroom but when i went on another one once i felt very out of it,like it was a bit clickely,if you know what i mean,the same people were always on it like they had a special friendship and i felt very left out,i hope that makes sense,as this forum is now i feel like everyone are friends,equals sort of,with a chatroom the more confident people seem to chat more,thats what i feel anyway,i just cant seem to explain it very well!!

we had my family round boxing day evening and i was really enjoying myself,steve was being good so i felt very relaxed anyway my sister turns up with her newish boyfriend,i was pleased but in behind them came this massive dog of his running about ,my sister knows im wary of dogs,also ive got a 2 year old and i had text my sister earlier on to say dont bring the dog,i said to her lets put the dog out the back for a bit,the boyfriend didnt look very impressed but i just couldnt relax with my daughter around so we put dog out the garden. then they let the dog in and i could see my partner was getting uptight and he said to my sister can you put that dog on a lead please,they never did,he asked again and they said the dog wouldnt hurt anyone at which point my dad jumped up and said my partner was being stupid and he was going home as my partner was being horrible to the dog!!then my dad started being threatening with a stick,god it was horrible,hes never like that,i know he had too much to drink and he said sorry to my partner after,then steve had a major meltdown which i understood,im just so annoyed with my sister,i was having a lovely christmas,i cant stop thinking about it,her boyfriend was saying we was like it cos the dog was a staff,it wasent that,i just think they could have had the decency to put him on a lead or not brought him at all,its my house,sorry this was long but i had to get it off my chest(not the dog!!)also the boyfriend only went to light up one of his happy fags in my frontroom and looked put out when my partner told him to smoke it in the garden,i dont care if i dont see them again,im so annoyed

what i dont understand is,how come vipers in kent and im in kent and she gets snow and i dont?!i really really want snow

im in the south in kent,i havent got any!!

come on,thats not very friendly tm!!i suppose we will have to share him then,me first though

its lovely when we have a nice day,theres so many bad days in this house so when i get a good one i get very shocked and have to keep posting about it im so excited i cant sleep,if boxing day is good as well i will not be able to contain myself!!

the suspense is killing me,whats the new logo?

tylers mum,there will be a fight on this island as he has got to be mine!!i tell you what you can have the chocolate fountain if i can have HIM,agreed?

i love smellies but i never got any this year!!i got wizard of oz on dvd,i love that film.a few cds,a lovely bracelet off nick and like someone said before the best present was peace!!a lovely day

ive typed text messaging into my search bar and lots of sites have come up where you can text free from your pc to a mobile,are they really free or do you think theres a catch?have any of you tried it?im a bit nervous in case i get a big bill in!

champagne bev,im round yours next christmas!!then again saying that my MIL brought me some for christmas,we also had a really lovely dayMIL cooked dinner while i sat around steven was v good,though i could tell he found it a bit much at times,all in all he done brilliant,im exhausted now though!!

im so excited,steve and katie loved their pressies,steve nearly had a tantrum cos i couldnt turn his dvd player on but i found the on switch just in time,thank god!!hope all going well for you love hev

yeah the batcave has cheered me up on a sad day loads of times!!merry christmas to all of you,my friends who have helped me so much

i was a super user last week,now im twin peaks!!i prefer that to super user as that sounded like i wasent a nice person and used people why am i twin peaks though? i know its getting late but im now ben nevis!!am i dreaming,i think im going mad!!

hello sue,you not a drag,i feel exactly as you do,i often feel im punishing steve for having aspergers,for something which isent his fault,we are not saints and we love them dearly,they know that,i also feel very tired and drained,i try to think positive and think there are people far more severe than steven,he is also called mild,there is nothing at all mild in my house,just to say you are not alone and nowhere near an unfit mother,i could have written your post we sound so similar,take care love hev xx

all going well,left him for an hour again yesterday,i notice he phoned me on my mobile twice but he is so proud of himself when i get in,i would never go out for too long but he seems much happier when i do trust him