JeanneA Report post Posted April 6, 2010 Its my son Glen's 16th birthday today. He has unwrapped all his presents with no excitement bless him, the normal! We are having a very normal day as if you make fuss then he will only become very anxious. Its so sad though and much worse this year due to his problems. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Karen A Report post Posted April 6, 2010 <'> <'> <'> <'> Sorry Glen's birthday is a tough day today and hope that there is some progress in finding a placement to help him soon. Karen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
cmuir Report post Posted April 6, 2010 Hi My mum said something that really struck a chord ... She's often said that Robert appears oblivious to a situation which I find upsetting, eg, 'friends' not wanting to play with him, etc. I think we parents often 'feel' it much more. I know from your posts that Glen's not been himself. I really hope that things turn a corner for you all soon. Caroline. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JeanneA Report post Posted April 6, 2010 Thanks for your replies. We may be onto sorting a placement out soon, I will keep you posted. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
jaffacakes Report post Posted April 6, 2010 Happy Birthday Glen. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
lisac Report post Posted April 6, 2010 Bless him, we've had some dire birthdays in the past , its only another day Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Kathryn Report post Posted April 6, 2010 Happy birthday Glen. And some <'> <'> for you - as parents. These milestones can be tough. I spent my daughter's 16th birthday in tears - I remember she was in a highly anxious state at the time and life was very stressful, so I do sympathise. I hope you find some time to have a small private celebration yourselves and a pat on the back for doing the great parenting job you've done for 16 years. K x Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Suze Report post Posted April 6, 2010 Happy Birthday Glen ....my son does,nt really do the whole Birthday thing either......since he was about 6 he likes his presents just left in his room and he likes to open them alone in his own time, same with xmas.He doe,nt like the fuss, but does l;ike the presents iyswim. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JeanneA Report post Posted April 7, 2010 I'm glad yesterday is over, shouldn't say that but Glen does prefer his routine and so do I. I hate seeing him even more anxious than he is generally at the moment. Quote Share this post Link to post Share on other sites