Before I was a mom

[justamom]

I thought this was lovely... I wanted to share it with you all... (it applies to the dads too)

 

Before I was a Mom I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.

I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.

I never thought about immunizations.

Before I was a Mom - I had never been puked on.

Pooped on.

Chewed on.

Peed on.

I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts.

I slept all night.

Before I was a Mom I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests.

Or give shots.

I never looked into teary eyes and cried.

I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.

 

 

I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.

Before I was a Mom I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put it down.

I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt.

I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.

I never knew that I could love someone so much.

I never knew I would love being a Mom.

Before I was a Mom - I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.

I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.

 

I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child.

I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy.

Before I was a Mom - I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.

I had never known the warmth, The joy, The love, The heartache, The wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom.

I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much before I was a Mom.

 

And before I was a Grandma, I didn't know that all those "Mom" feelings more than doubled when you see that little bundle being held by "your baby"...

 

Send this to someone who you think is a special Mom or Grandma. I just did.

And remember that behind every successful mother... Is a basket of dirty laundry.

 

 

 

[kirstie]

Oh that is lovely! And all of it so true, especially the laundry bit!!

[something vague]

Hi JaM,

 

My favourite lines: -

 

I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.

 

I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt.

 

I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.

 

 

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My kids are grown up now but that 'feeding a hungry baby' line still strikes a chord. A very special feeling And it doesnt matter how old they get, you still feel powerless when you cant stop the hurt

 

Oh dear, I am getting soppy

 

SV