amygriff

hi how weird jus read post and my son is leo is 3 and at nursery.he sounds ths same as mine. i am under allens croft its taki forever and like you i know it heart breakin and time consumin every week i see support worker and halth vist jus waitin to see consultant.he bein like this since birth so i undewrstand its all new to me xxx

hello everyone joined about week ago. you have to excuse spellin im no goood on computer its all new. anyway jus thought id say hi and thank god im not alone. as a parent my son is still not fully diagnoised they think he may have AS! i dont know any body with a child in the same position and after readin all posts know i am not the only one who feels like cryin or feels lost!!! it is such a long process{my son is nearly 4 i knew when born not right} sometimes you feel am i jus wastin time or am i jus making it upin my head then i seee my son every day and think no i am pushin it he is my son!! so thanks everyone for makin me feel not alone and positive amy xxx

hi ya he got a nice support worker from sure start bein doin about his emotions hich he doesn seem to have apart from cryin or screamin he is under allens croft so jus waitin for that appointment as you all know takes forever. his nursery are supportive to be doin visual signs for meals so he doesn get confused at the dinner hall. i think as a parent tryed most things now that why needin help coz what i done not worked plus as a family need a bit of routine and a bit of calm if that can ever happen!!!!!!!! thanks for support any more suggestions are more than welcome xxxxx

hi again thanks for replying as you all know its really hard with no answers. just relyin back yes he has bein nursery and he jus started a school one in september they have picked up on the fact he does not respond to any instuction and he cannot concentrate on anythin he also does not talk to the other children plus he still wettin. i done incredible years course but it was good for my "normal" 4 year old but not my 3 year old. I have got routine charts round the house they do make a bit of difference but please please any more suggestion please leave them it be gratefull amy xxxxx

hi everyone im new 2 this site but i really thought this site would help me with my son. he is only 3 and half but he is disruping the whole house with my other two kids and my hus band he has bein a handfull since birth with constant crying and not sleeping! due to him bein the youngest i knew there was somethin not right. he has bein under the hospital for milk intolerance and reflux but got discharged coz said it was a behaviour problem. at 2 we was then put with a support worker and i have done parenting classes which with all the technigues have not worked. i am writing here coz i feel i am not getting anywhere he is now 3 and waiting to see consultant they think he has as but not sure!!!!!! he is hitting and being violent no eye contact too loud no safety awareness not socialising with other kids not listening to instuctions has to have everythin the same in his room please could any one offer advice i am at breaking point thanks amy