Noskcaj86

i hope he does! He tells me to leave him alone or go away mummy a lot of the time. I havve to beg for hours for a hug! Just so different to my other boys who live hugs :/

well he just let me cuddle him, and he told me he loves me... so he does, but on his terms only!!! lol

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I hope you don't see those people again Noskca. What a nasty experience. Have the children been upset about it since?

Jack hasnt, but my eldest has been :/

Jack hasnt, but my eldest has been :/

I was exhausted and struggling to keep my eyes open and in the end he ended up sleeping on the sofa with his dad! He would have woken the other 3 kids up otherwise as he doesnt understand the need to be "quiet"!!!!

Fingers crossed for you and Jack...

Thanx

Now not sure the incontinence forms were needed... but in the past he has done great for a while then taken a step back again so we will see... fingers crossed for him!

VIP dates?

We are seeing social services disabled childrens team for assessment and also assessment for free nappies for Jack on 4th, then paediatrician is discussing him in her meeting with other doctors on 6th... and following that meeting we have been told he will be put on the asd diagnosis list to be diagnosed FINALLY! Its only taken 3 years to get this far... so it will be a relief when its all over and we can move on

woo-hoo!!!

WELL DONE !!....congratulations Jack xx

And he went to sleep without any major problems or screaming bad days seems really bad but must always try and remember the good ones too!

That's even better!!

And 11.30 is early for him at home!!

Have you looked into a respite holiday?

We have been offered respite before, but it would have been a foster carer and im not keen on him going to strangers and i dont think it would do him amy good either... We have had a 4 dat break where he was with his nanny (thurs to sunday) But the stress starths up again almost as soon as hes home! x

Yes im ok Thanx, My Grandad passed away yesterday morning though x

Poor Noskca thinking of u. x

Thanx x

Got 10ml calpol down him mixed in the juice but temp still 38 and a half. Ahhh kids like to worry there parents dont they!! lol

At least it's down a bit - well done!

Its 38 now so much better than almost 40

How is he doing now? So stressful when they're sick...as if you need anymore stress in your life right now! When i don't know what's wrong with my daughter i panic over the slightest thing!

Still got a high temp. It was 39 and a half again this morning. No school for him today. Calpol and nurofen given and temp down to 37

Get better soon Jack x

why are you Click?

Jack was clicking... he likes to click his tongue LOTS. It can get a bit annoying at the end of the day after hearing it for a few hours hehe.

ahh i thought it was a reference to typing on the keyboard!

And thanx for (hugs)

I know you've said before you're not sure when he's ill - is it possible he has an ear infection or something? Has he maybe caught what the little one had? Problem too with not sleeping can also be the overtiredness factor!! Fingers crossed you get to bed soon x

He seemed fine after the screaming but didnt go to sleep till 2 am! He always wants his dad next to him while he falls asleep, dad had been lying next to him in bad for about an hour and a half already and he wouldnt settle, dad had other things to do (non stop with 4 kids) so had to come down, thats when screaming started. So think it was to do with wanting his dad there with him, but he couldnt spend any more time up there last night x

Glad you've got to the bottom of things :-)

Poor little lad. Hope he feels better soon.

thankyou

My Finn is the same he peaked last night at 39.5 and is now sitting in low 39's - horrible them being ill especially at Christmas when this is the first Christmas he's had a clue what's going on.

Yea its not fair! Jack seems ok in himself, bit quieter than normal but ok. Going to keep an eye on him and keep him dosed up on calpol hope they are both feeling better soon!