When will the holiday end................

[ASue67]

Am sooooooooooo fed up and exhausted. Am sick of trying to stop the fighting and arguing and listening to 'I'm bored' all the time.

 

Mike has been such hard work all holiday....... he is not sleeping well despite the melatonin, waking through the night and up early, and then bouncing around all day.

 

My M.E. has got much worse over the last few months and the last 2 weeks have made it even harder to cope with. I could sleep all day, ache all over......

 

Sorry, just need to let it out before I face a 2hr speech and language appt this afternoon with Mike......................

 

I will be a wreck by the time I am back in work next week and have only just gone back to work recently after 2 months off with stress..

 

Off to face the next lot of battles for the day............ wish me luck!!!!

[forbsay]

Good luck

 

Sending you lots of hugs <'> <'> <'>

[Karen A]

<'> <'> I will not pretend to have answers but understand exactly how you are feeling.

Not so much fighting here....just constant silly behaviour and noise...and complaints about boredom.

I hope you survive the afternoon. <'> Karen.

[harmony]

So understand where you are at! holidays have gone on forever!, my 2 eldest go to different schools, the day no1 went back to school after Easter no 2 started his holidays. They are all back on Monday, and it will have been just over 5 weeks with a child at home. AHHHHHHH ( mind you I have the little one here in the afternoons all the time)

 

Harmony x

[ASue67]

Thanks everyone, have survived just about. Just got to cope with possible meltdown tomorrow morning as the social services case worker is coming to visit us again as they are doing a core assessment of needs following my application for help.

Last time she came Mike refused to come downstairs and even look at her and she needs to meet him and talk to him........... Hey ho!!!!! Keep your fingers crossed for me at 10am tomorrow...... yet another mountain to climb

 

Am worn out now and am heading off to bed early, what an exciting life I lead!!!!

 

Thanks again <'>

[hev]

will be thinking of you with good vibes at ten tomorrow,dont be fobbed off by them either,they told me steve werent autistic enough for me to get help when i asked first time they talk a load of you know what sometimes,you are entitled to help so make sure they give you it,good luck

[baddad]

Very best for that meeting

 

Yes, these past two weeks have seemed especially exhausting - maybe that 'overlong winter' thing discussed in another thread again? Dunno - but roll on Monday

[smiley]

<'> Hope the meeting went well

 

Gotta say - i'm pleased it's Friday!!

[ASue67]

Meeting went okish this morning, Mike still refused to come down stairs and talk to her so she went upstairs and sat next to the computer!!!! He ended up telling her about his game he was playing so it worked!

 

She has to come back and do loads more detailed sessions with me as well as set up a multi agency review meeting which will include school, CAMHs, OT and SALT and myself.

 

just hope that after all this SS caan actually provide us with some support and/or help??

 

2 more days to get through can I make it?????

 

Hugs to anyone who needs them xxx <'> <'>

[hev]

yes you will get through the next 2 days <'> its so hard though eh <'>